awesomeautist
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Hey everyone,
I’m exploring the idea of creating a private, invite-only social club in NYC specifically for autistic individuals who are looking for a different kind of community—one that goes beyond the typical support groups or niche meetups.
As an autistic person myself, I’ve noticed that many spaces designed for us tend to center around specific (and often stereotypical) interests. While those communities are great for some, I’ve found that they don’t always reflect the full spectrum of who we are. Not all of us are into Pokémon or Yu-Gi-Oh. Some of us are into fitness, culture, fine dining, theater, fashion, and dating, and there aren’t many spaces where we can connect with like-minded individuals in a more sophisticated, social environment.
The goal? Think Equinox, but for autistic socializing. A space where members are pre-approved and where the focus is on elevated experiences, social connection, and even dating. We could host curated events—wine nights, private dinners with a chef, group workouts, fashion-forward gatherings, straight and gay social nights, and other high-end experiences that feel more in line with a premium social club rather than a traditional autism meetup.
I know this concept might be seen as a little unconventional—or even exclusive—but the reality is, not all autistic individuals fit into the same mold. Some of us are actively dating, into self-care, and looking to connect in a space that prioritizes mutual attraction, shared interests, and a curated social environment.
I’m posting this to gauge interest before moving forward with a more structured plan. If this sounds like something you’d be into, like this post or drop a comment. If there’s enough interest, I’ll work on making this vision a reality.
Would love to hear your thoughts!
I’m exploring the idea of creating a private, invite-only social club in NYC specifically for autistic individuals who are looking for a different kind of community—one that goes beyond the typical support groups or niche meetups.
As an autistic person myself, I’ve noticed that many spaces designed for us tend to center around specific (and often stereotypical) interests. While those communities are great for some, I’ve found that they don’t always reflect the full spectrum of who we are. Not all of us are into Pokémon or Yu-Gi-Oh. Some of us are into fitness, culture, fine dining, theater, fashion, and dating, and there aren’t many spaces where we can connect with like-minded individuals in a more sophisticated, social environment.
The goal? Think Equinox, but for autistic socializing. A space where members are pre-approved and where the focus is on elevated experiences, social connection, and even dating. We could host curated events—wine nights, private dinners with a chef, group workouts, fashion-forward gatherings, straight and gay social nights, and other high-end experiences that feel more in line with a premium social club rather than a traditional autism meetup.
I know this concept might be seen as a little unconventional—or even exclusive—but the reality is, not all autistic individuals fit into the same mold. Some of us are actively dating, into self-care, and looking to connect in a space that prioritizes mutual attraction, shared interests, and a curated social environment.
I’m posting this to gauge interest before moving forward with a more structured plan. If this sounds like something you’d be into, like this post or drop a comment. If there’s enough interest, I’ll work on making this vision a reality.
Would love to hear your thoughts!
