Hopeless_Aspie_Guy
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Right, so I need to seriously get an answer here (I’m failing so badly at online dating and it’s really bothering and depressing me) and I feel this is the best way to get a more exact understanding by using the link provided below with a visual representation of girls I’m not into (my own opinion), girls I believe are in the same kind of league as me (and of which I can aim to go out with) and those that I believe to be out of my league (though not necessarily more attractive). And 'leagues' are of course controversial and may or may not exist for some, but humour me here and assume that there is such a thing (some professional advice, misguided or not, even suggests and advices you respect this). If I had to rate myself then I’d see myself as a 6 or 6.5/10 (my pictures are included in the link), if others wish to then you can say whether you agree with this or not because my opinion needs to be assessed by others for me to understand if I’m being realistic or not (initially I was aiming too often for the girls on the right). So as not to get any bitchy complaints from people, I’m not going to say how I rate the others girls I’ve provided because it’s not fair to try rating them and I don’t necessarily see myself as being too good for them on the far left hand side either (but someone will no doubt find them attractive), but these types of girls are not attractive to me and I’ve dated one of them and the sex and relationship etc just made me feel bad for lying to them and myself. In the middle are pictures of girls (most or all of which I’m in the same league as and of which I would love to date because they’d get more beautiful with each passing day). Most pictures have two images of each person to give a more balanced viewpoint (providing more than one was available to use).
Incidentally before people start mentioning the importance of looks etc, they’re 50% for me, the girls on the left and right could have nice personalities (without stereotyping) but the one’s in the middle coupled with their looks I’d be perfectly happy with. I’ve only ever had the one girlfriend before but it was such a nightmare and I’ve never had interest from desirable women before or after so this is part of my quest to better find whats going wrong. I’d sooner date ‘Amy Farrah Fowler’ than I would Penny (Big bang theory). And I also forgot to mention all on the left have been the only women in the last few days to message me even though more attractive one’s (in my opinion- that are not pictured) have responded to my messages (albeit much earlier this year). I’ve only been online dating for a week again too.
http://i.imgur.com/oQ3CoJO.jpg
Right, so I need to seriously get an answer here (I’m failing so badly at online dating and it’s really bothering and depressing me) and I feel this is the best way to get a more exact understanding by using the link provided below with a visual representation of girls I’m not into (my own opinion), girls I believe are in the same kind of league as me (and of which I can aim to go out with) and those that I believe to be out of my league (though not necessarily more attractive). And 'leagues' are of course controversial and may or may not exist for some, but humour me here and assume that there is such a thing (some professional advice, misguided or not, even suggests and advices you respect this). If I had to rate myself then I’d see myself as a 6 or 6.5/10 (my pictures are included in the link), if others wish to then you can say whether you agree with this or not because my opinion needs to be assessed by others for me to understand if I’m being realistic or not (initially I was aiming too often for the girls on the right). So as not to get any bitchy complaints from people, I’m not going to say how I rate the others girls I’ve provided because it’s not fair to try rating them and I don’t necessarily see myself as being too good for them on the far left hand side either (but someone will no doubt find them attractive), but these types of girls are not attractive to me and I’ve dated one of them and the sex and relationship etc just made me feel bad for lying to them and myself. In the middle are pictures of girls (most or all of which I’m in the same league as and of which I would love to date because they’d get more beautiful with each passing day). Most pictures have two images of each person to give a more balanced viewpoint (providing more than one was available to use).
Incidentally before people start mentioning the importance of looks etc, they’re 50% for me, the girls on the left and right could have nice personalities (without stereotyping) but the one’s in the middle coupled with their looks I’d be perfectly happy with. I’ve only ever had the one girlfriend before but it was such a nightmare and I’ve never had interest from desirable women before or after so this is part of my quest to better find whats going wrong. I’d sooner date ‘Amy Farrah Fowler’ than I would Penny (Big bang theory). And I also forgot to mention all on the left have been the only women in the last few days to message me even though more attractive one’s (in my opinion- that are not pictured) have responded to my messages (albeit much earlier this year). I’ve only been online dating for a week again too.
http://i.imgur.com/oQ3CoJO.jpg