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tamalito

tamalito

Some people call me the space cowboy... From Chihuahua
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  • tamalito
    I had a conversation about some crabs I used to see outside of my parent's home back when I was a kid, turns out they were Louisiana Crawfish

    I don't see them anymore thanks to urbanization, but... How did they end up here in the state of Chihuahua? I will never know
    oregano
    oregano
    Abandoned pets is my guess. The USA has big problems with animals that are meant to live in the wild being caged as illegal pets. The owners decide they can't keep them and dump them. Then the animals wreak havoc on the environment.
    tamalito
    tamalito
    This happened with some green parrots here @oregano

    We had never seen them but I'm supposing someone either had them as pets or bought them and freed them to do a good deed (we still have vendors who sell those kinds of birds on the streets) and well... Now there's a lot of them flying around

    Not gonna lie, they're pretty but I assume they're a problem for pecan farmers
    tamalito
    I sat through the credits of Arkham Knight just to realize I am yet to get the "true-true ending" *groans* 🙄🙄🙄🙄
    tamalito
    tamalito
    Not getting the riddler trophies, not happening. Rockstar, you can keep your "true ending"
    honeytoast
    honeytoast
    You can watch it on Youtube
    tamalito
    tamalito
    That's my plan! I mean, why hide the true ending behind completing the game 100%? The ending wasn't even that good to begin with IMHO
    tamalito
    Does anyone know if it's possible to delete blog entries?

    Thank you!
    tree
    tree
    Do you not see the option "delete" listed when you view the blog entry?
    tamalito
    tamalito
    I must've missed it, does it show up when you click the three little dots?
    tamalito
    Why does my brain insist that everyone is angry at me constantly? It's tiring...
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    tamalito
    tamalito
    Thank you @Rodafina I'm assuming it's part of finding a healthy reason why my feelings are being that way? To challenge the thoughts without conflict?
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    What I described is the foundation of Cognitive Behavior Therapy. It is often something that people need help navigating (like with a therapist or counselor).

    The idea is to slowly change automatic negative thoughts over time. Here's one resource that walks you through the process:

    Automatic Thoughts (worksheet)
    tamalito
    tamalito
    Thank you, amigui 💜🖤
    tamalito
    Had a saltine with jam and I think I had it before, idk when tho
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    tamalito
    tamalito
    Was she on a diet? That doesn't seem too healthy
    tree
    tree
    No, she wasn't dieting.
    She just liked crackers and jam.
    Easy. And cheap energy, although not likely to sustain health in the long run.
    Eating 'treat' food as a steady thing.....
    tamalito
    tamalito
    Ahhhh I liked them too, they were pretty good!
    tamalito
    Bought some "cafe de olla" which is basically coffee made with cinnamon and "piloncillo" (like molasses, but not really) and ended up tasting just like coffee...

    Granted is instant coffee (don't judge, it's all I can afford) so maybe that's why it doesn't taste like cinnamon or piloncillo at all...

    It's not bad, at least
    tamalito
    My kids jumped on my back and legs and now I'm sore (to them I'm still "dad") I guess my body is a bit more sensitive now than before... Gotta soldier on tho... Hope I don't get bruises 🙃
    tamalito
    Should I continue blogging here?... 🤔🤔🤔
    Raggamuffin
    Raggamuffin
    I took to writing my own personal journal. It's slower than writing. But journalling to an unseen audience seemed a little voyeuristic to me. Like social media has us living our life to an unseen audience, and how it makes us feel when we get likes and comments etc.
    Rodafina
    Rodafina
    If it's useful to you as a public journal, keep it up. If you are looking for more engagement, it's probably better to use the threads (they get more attention than blogs). Sometimes, the writing itself is what's most helpful, regardless of if anyone else notices it.
    T
    thejuice
    I dont see a problem with an impersonal blog. Keep in mind whose reading, friend or foe, if you share anything personal.
    tamalito
    I did a thing, and I did it in ultra-violence

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    tamalito
    It's raining 😊
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    Wish we had some of that here. The eastern side of the country has been having trouble with floods but where I live we've been in drought for about 5 years now.
    tamalito
    tamalito
    I'll blow on the clouds and send them your way! LOL 🤭🤭🤭 I do hope you get some rain soon!
    tamalito
    Had an episode but I think I managed it well enough, knowing I was having one and being aware of it helped a lot
    tamalito
    Discovered a new band and they're very good, IDK about y'all but to me this is a win
    AprilR
    AprilR
    Which band is that?
    tamalito
    tamalito
    Wooden Shjips (no that's not a typo)
    tamalito
    Another hot day, UGH UUUUUUUUUGGGGGGHHHHH
    Judge
    Judge
    Getting much warmer in Northern Nevada as well. Every year comes that transition that never seems to be easy. Even though I enjoy the warmer weather. Or used to...I'm not sure!
    tamalito
    It's not about complaining that life's unfair, it's about finding a way to make it better, right?
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    AprilR
    AprilR
    Yeah, i try to not focus on the world but how it could be.
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    "Not Fair" was drummed out of us when we were kids, when ever we complained about something not being fair Mum always said "And neither is a black boy's bum, get moving.".
    tamalito
    tamalito
    It's all one can do, right? Keep rowing through the river of life and hope to find the ocean
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