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Tony Ramirez

Tony Ramirez

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  • Tony Ramirez
    Women I don't know have been ostracizing me, treating me like dirt all day, even when I sat next to them even just me and one in yoga class only talked to the teacher after I was trying to talk in a group. I am not in a good mood.
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    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    In random get-togethers, social rules almost don't exist. Nobody is under any obligation to talk to others.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    And I believe it. Most of the time in these places it's dead silence except for the music playing and the hosts talking. Unless a couple of casual friends walk in and talk otherwise people keep to themselves. It actually sucks and I hate it which sounds weird being autistic.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    I had one class, where our teacher actively asked us questions, and then we were more friendly with each other. But most of my classes aren't like this, and l don't really talk to most.
    Tony Ramirez
    I went to my local deli to buy a drink but I had no cash just my phone to pay but it was a $5:limit so I put my drink back but the kind women said that it's okay and she pays for the soda must have known I was stressed. I could not believe there are kind women and she did not even look the type either. ❤️
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    Misty Avich
    Is that you in your profile picture, Tony? I don't get why so many girls shun you. You look sweet, and so does your cat. I wish women in your life would accept you for who you are. I certainly would if I was a woman from one of those church clubs. If a man (or woman) is friendly and nice like you seem to be, then that's good enough for me. I'm open to being anybody's friend.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Yes but it doesn't matter. I always saw myself as ugly even when I saw guys uglier than me with a girl because none of them wanted to be my friend.
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    Misty Avich
    That's low self-esteem. I think nearly all people with low self-esteem see themselves as ugly but that never means they are ugly. I feel the same way about myself too.
    Tony Ramirez
    I threatened to be kicked out of the yoga studio because of my constant trauma dumping due to my trauma with girls and travel envy. I now heard this after my latest breakdown. I am losing everything in my life.
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    Masked Man
    Masked Man
    You can't cause disturbances when things do not go your way. They have every right to revoke your membership. They're a privately owned company and they can discontinue business with you if they see that you are making other customers or the workers uncomfortable. I said this before - you need to learn how to control your emotions.
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    Misty Avich
    Well you're welcome to trauma dump here, Tony. I have lots of sympathy for you and I want good things to go your way.
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    thejuice
    You'll get understanding here that you won't in the outside world
    Tony Ramirez
    It's bad in my house. I snapped. My mother won't talk to me. Says I'm useless. I wish I was dead like I should be.
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    thejuice
    Tell mother this guy on a random forum thinks that's a bit mean to say..
    tree
    tree
    Yes, it does sound harsh.
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    thejuice
    Ill never forget being called a stupid boy aged 24 by mum XD
    Tony Ramirez
    When I get home if my control freak family annoy me I am going to snap on them especially my father and will be WW3 at home.
    Tony Ramirez
    I freaking hate 2 word conversations with most single standoffish women. It's like those women they purposely do them to me to piss me off. But men and most married women will actually have longer conversations with me.
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    thejuice
    They'll have to learn social skills eventually
    Tony Ramirez
    Okay I am at my new church now where I know I am not going to be ostracized and I am already socializing. Feeling better.
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    thejuice
    I went to bar and had earache the whole time
    Tony Ramirez
    I hate it when casual friends talk loud and don't shut the hell up when you are trying to zone out of depressing ambient music, even with noise-cancelling headphones.
    Tony Ramirez
    Let's admit, my social skills really suck eggs. Actually, suck eggs is better because eggs taste good. More like rotten eggs. I see someone I talk to last week I had a pathetic 10-minute conversation she is having an over 1-hour conversation with a big ugly man that she actually wanted to hang out with casual not throw away garbage like me just a run in and leave.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I get this with any encounter every time. Every freaking time. That is why I can't ever have a casual female friend.
    Tony Ramirez
    Every little thing is pissing me off now. I use to be so happy not that while ago.
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    thejuice
    Do you remember what it felt like?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    You know? You read my post history. I don't feel like repeating myself but it involved a certain Miss M I won't mention that betrayed me by well I am not letting the haters here defend her.
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    thejuice
    It's always man's fault.
    Tony Ramirez
    Seeing guys and girls outside just now as casual friends finally made me say the s word in anger. I have not swear that word in over a decade.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    It must have been at least 15 years since I said that word and it was because I hurt myself badly physically.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Too many damn triggers here at the park. I got to rest then head to church later. Yoga was good except the students were snobbish actually they said nothing to no one not even to each other.
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    thejuice
    I hope you don't see any casual friends or snobs at church!
    Tony Ramirez
    Hanging out with my old church people talking about all the mature crap series like Narcos, Ozark, Breaking Bad and some bad Chav series on Max. I want to hang with my new church crew who likes Pokemon, dragon ball z, LOTR, star wars.
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    tree
    tree
    You went because Patricia asked you. You connect with her and her friends?
    Who was at the dinner, then? Patricia and these friends of hers?

    Because it doesn't sound like you were enjoying the gathering.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    I am really good friends with Patricia. She helped me all those months even with the textationship. I really don't know her friends well but she knows I want to connect with people so she tells me to go to as many social gatherings but I connected much better with the new church.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    .i told her this before I left and she understands so I know I won't go to the next monthly gathering. But she will try to find me others including volunteering
    Tony Ramirez
    I'm in a social dinner at someone's house bored out of my mind because I am the only person being not talked to.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    That's why I have absolutely nothing in common with these people so I can't talk about anything unlike the girls at game night from hope community and the church group even the pastor from hope likes what they like unlike the pastor from my old church likes the mature garbage.
    tree
    tree
    How is it that you happen to be at a dinner with people you feel you have so little in common with?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    That's one of the reasons why I left the old church.
    Tony Ramirez
    My poor IQ is the reason why I still live at home with my control freak parents, I am unemployed, never travel anywhere, have friends and keep losing them. Why I am a big loser that won't amount to anything.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    That's because of low IQ of not having college. A vicious cycle of my miserable life.
    Masked Man
    Masked Man
    There's no need to put yourself down. You have a condition - autism - that makes many aspects of life difficult for you. You want other people to be more considerate of you, and you need to do it for yourself as well. Stop being your own bully and embrace self-acceptance.
    jsilver256
    jsilver256
    Agree with @Masked Man . Remember all the other good times you had with other people, how they loved you? You got a pastor to bake bread with you within a few minutes of meeting you! You clearly are a naturally charismatic person. You can learn how to channel this. Let go of expectations - your expectations of yourself, your expectations of what others should do for you.
    Tony Ramirez
    I'm getting real sick of hearing every tom dick and harry talk about there travel plans around the world or future plans while I been stuck in hell town Brooklyn with my control freak family for 5 years with my last vacation to Connecticut.
    jsilver256
    jsilver256
    You inspired me to cut down on my cussing... I hope you have a better day.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Thanks I only say minor swears when I am angry the ones I typed out I don't say the b words and never the f or s word.
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