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You get carried away by your feelings.
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Misty Avich
That's no reason to kick you out though.
Judge
Judge
If you lose your urge to trauma dump you may just gain a whole lot more. Having people around you only to feel sorry for you won't help you in the long run. You need to learn to talk to people to be social. Not vent at them.
Tony Ramirez
Tony Ramirez
It was a misunderstanding after talking to the teacher.
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thejuice
Oh no Tony try to steady the ship if you can!
Tony Ramirez
Tony Ramirez
Got a warning letter from the owner. I am so ude to getting these.
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thejuice
Oh dear maybe take a break to cool off?
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Misty Avich
A warning letter for info dumping? Did you hurt anyone? Did you insult anyone? Was you a threat to anyone? Did you commit a crime? No, to all 4. So they're overreacting and being weird. I'm sorry you had to experience that.
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thejuice
Unfortunately perception is more important than reality especially re: protected categories. Perception is biased by prejudice. Someone noticebly 'untypical' and acting in an 'untypical' manner is more likely to be perceived as threatening which is unfair.

The reason they put it in writing is to prove they gave you fair warning before banning you. Perhaps a good time to go exploring in the meantime instead?
Tony Ramirez
Tony Ramirez
What else can I do except hang out in the coffee shop all day? I want to explore New York but I don't know where to start and I have no one to go with.
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thejuice
You don't feel safe going solo?
Tony Ramirez
Tony Ramirez
I do since I most likely will have no choice, and I am used to it my entire miserable life, as eventually I always end up solo at the end anyway.
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thejuice
The silver lining to that is you can do what you want and you can meet new people and if anyone freaks out well who cares you don't know them anyway lol
Tony Ramirez
Tony Ramirez
To think all the things to did for that studio and one instant, and they're threading me. That is how society treats autistic people. NT's can make multiple mistakes, and they are forgiving but autistic and yes I stupidly told them that last year.
Tony Ramirez
Tony Ramirez
Right away all the good I did basically saving the studio from moving far away. The teacher not quitting and even so called inspiring her and others to stay and hire other teachers was all ruined over a trauma dump.
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thejuice
They flatter to decieve, actions always speak louder than words!
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