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Tony Ramirez

Tony Ramirez

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Single Aspie RSD NEET 48 From Brooklyn, NY
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  • Tony Ramirez
    My poor IQ is the reason why I still live at home with my control freak parents, I am unemployed, never travel anywhere, have friends and keep losing them. Why I am a big loser that won't amount to anything.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    That's because of low IQ of not having college. A vicious cycle of my miserable life.
    Masked Man
    Masked Man
    There's no need to put yourself down. You have a condition - autism - that makes many aspects of life difficult for you. You want other people to be more considerate of you, and you need to do it for yourself as well. Stop being your own bully and embrace self-acceptance.
    jsilver256
    jsilver256
    Agree with @Masked Man . Remember all the other good times you had with other people, how they loved you? You got a pastor to bake bread with you within a few minutes of meeting you! You clearly are a naturally charismatic person. You can learn how to channel this. Let go of expectations - your expectations of yourself, your expectations of what others should do for you.
    Tony Ramirez
    I'm getting real sick of hearing every tom dick and harry talk about there travel plans around the world or future plans while I been stuck in hell town Brooklyn with my control freak family for 5 years with my last vacation to Connecticut.
    jsilver256
    jsilver256
    You inspired me to cut down on my cussing... I hope you have a better day.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Thanks I only say minor swears when I am angry the ones I typed out I don't say the b words and never the f or s word.
    Tony Ramirez
    I will never have a true single female casual friend that will ever want to spend time with me.
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Your right in those dives it does not make a damn difference. I seen women only approach or talk to normal men who sit next to them even uglier than sin but they are NT. Like they know we are neurodiverse and avoid us like the plaque by actually sitting on the edge of getting up when we sit next to them even have the nerve to get up when they have no place to sit and they are carrying crap with them.
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    thejuice
    Yes it's probably some kind of radar. Being alone doesn't help.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    No NT men that are alone they talk to. They have a radar and avoid us.
    Tony Ramirez
    My life sucks, will always suck, and will never get better no matter what I do.
    maycontainthunder
    maycontainthunder
    Dog V4 sends hugs.
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    thejuice
    It's temporary pain I promise!!
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    aspieoutlaw89
    i know a guy who is going through the same thing.he also targets me,while bothering with me because i have it all in a social setting & he doesn't,because he's always making trouble,up to the point where i become hateful of him.
    Tony Ramirez
    I just trauma dumped on a friend from the new church I ran into. The first one BTW that said hello and talked to me on game night. I can't stop. She was kind and understanding, but now I feel rotten. I got so many emotions and can't talk to anyone but my mother, who makes things worse.
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    thejuice
    I can't talk to my parents either they make me more mad usually by not listening
    Tony Ramirez
    Everyday I don't die in my sleep is worse off.
    tree
    tree
    A graph that depicts your up and down moods would be informative to look at.
    Tony Ramirez
    My life would have been so much better if I was not a stupid person.
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    thejuice
    Why would you think that? 😢
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    We have good and bad about us. I never knew my great traits until l started working. Then l was surprised to see there are things l can do.
    Tony Ramirez
    My mother threatened me to stop talking to people because she is paranoid we are going to get out family in legal trouble. I am getting sick and going to lose it
    tree
    tree
    Your mom seems quite excitable.
    Tony Ramirez
    I just had a massive trauma dump on how I am a failure in life, stupid and useless to my friends out in dinner today when they talked about their employment and travel. Now my friend said he will do something contact my other friend from Roots. I am broke and can't be happy.
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    thejuice
    What did you have for dinner? What's Roots
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Pizza. A small chill coffee shop with free wifi that my married friend lets me stay until 4 pm. That is how I found the new church l now attend.
    Tony Ramirez
    I hate when I visit a coed place, and it is nothing but men there, like the coffee shop now. It makes me feel uncomfortable. Same thing earlier in yoga class. Where are the women visiting to buy something then leaving, then going under a rock.
    Tony Ramirez
    My family is driving me insane but I have no escape from them because everyone else is traveling and I am stuck at home in misery.
    Tony Ramirez
    I had a textationship not a casual friendship with the coffee shop girl and it sucked.
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    lunarious
    lunarious
    😁😅🌹 Yeah, what is textationship?
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    It basically what the name says. Madison and I would message each other all the time. But when I actually wanted to hang or just even talk to her. I had to find her or Sunday then she never had time to say to talk to me for 1 minute. She never hanged with me solo as a friend yet I would see casual friends hang out everyday all the time. Understand it sucks and it is painful.
    tree
    tree
    You wanted and expected more from her than what she had in mind.
    Tony Ramirez
    Living at home with my family now that events are being cancelled because people are traveling and it's not even June yet is now at the point of going to drive me to a mental institution.
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    Misty Avich
    I'm not going anywhere this summer either. We can't afford to. I have one week off work in June, and we're just staying home and my aunt is coming to stay for a couple of days, which I'm looking forward to. But that's it.
    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    No wonder why I always looked forward to the fall even school coming back at least people were back and not in timbuktule land while I was in my same rut places every year doing nothing with my miserable family even to this day.
    Tony Ramirez
    While literally everyone I know is traveling this summer too parts unknown. I am stuck in Brooklyn hanging out at a coffee shop and doing yoga all summer.
    Tony Ramirez
    Why do I keep thinking that women hate me when there are encounters knowing it's not true?
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    Tony Ramirez
    Tony Ramirez
    Both but it use to be the opposite but deep in my mind I always wanted it I just did not know how to socialize with them growing up with all male cousins and a type 3 ASD sister.
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    Misty Avich
    Maybe you have a feminine side to you and as an adult you just prefer to be in female company. That's cool. I like men with a feminine side.
    Aspychata
    Aspychata
    Maybe you are sensitive, and you don't have to act macho around woman. Maybe you find woman easier to relate to. My boyfriend is that way. He likes female bosses. My mom absolutely adores him. He isn't your traditional type A macho male. You will do great with a female boss if you ever want to work.
    Tony Ramirez
    I already Catastrophising when I got to my new church thinking they were closed pacing for 5 minutes until someone came out. Now I am breaking bread with the pastor and new friends.
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