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Recent content by Mems

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    Is it possible to win him back?

    Little update here. I observed him as a friend for a while now and I can say that he is not a nice person - autistic or not, doesn't matter. My image of him was quite rose-colored. I'm glad I listened to your advice and opinions and did not behave as I normally would have done (I'm usually the...
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    I Hate Summer

    Hahah, cool video, Judge!!!! I hate summer, too. Too hot, too much sun. Love spring and fall.
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    Girl Warriors

    Very interesting post. Do you know her? https://www.youtube.com/user/feministfrequency I love to be a woman and thus, like women a lot. Especially heroines in movies and books and comics. Some heroines use their love or wisdom, endurance or compassion to succeed, others are hot as hell and use...
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    First proper social event

    Oh, it was very brave of you to leave your comfort zone! It makes life more interesting, but it is not easy. You enjoyed socializing for the first time in your life. This experience must be confusing and ambivalent, but very precious. I am very curious about the factors responsible for making...
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    Influence of bad parents on an autistic person?

    Dear Lena, I find it beautiful that you make something creative out of something you originally suffered from. I'm glad that you can share your "world" with some friends! That's so cool! To clg114: Thank you to sum that up, that's very helpful to understand. That's also what DogwoodTree...
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    Influence of bad parents on an autistic person?

    Thank you very much for your answers. Of course! In its first years, a child normally imitates the behavioral patterns from the people who are around, otherwise, it doesn't learn anything. DogwoodTree, I also grew up in a dysfunctional family and like you, I withdrew into myself more. I had my...
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    Influence of bad parents on an autistic person?

    Hello I've got a question I've been asking myself for some weeks. If an autistic child has for example a mother who plays manipulative games or does emotional blackmail or makes the child feel guilty all the time, or a father who has a major depression or is not really interested in his child...
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    Is it possible to win him back?

    Thank you both for your answer. I see your points: it is unlikely that the relationship gets better if it started with problems and I cannot know so early who he really is. I should get to know him better being in a friendship and then perhaps consider anything more than that after a longer...
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    Is it possible to win him back?

    Thank you for your answer. Frustration... ok. This is very sad. Or it might had nothing to do with me. Yes, when I look back, there were some occasions I took personally, but they were not related to me, I think. I am very glad you sent me the thread. I read 1 to 9 and will continue reading...
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    Is it possible to win him back?

    Thank you very, very much for your answer. I will go through the thread. If I clearly perceive this, why would I want to pursue such a relationship? Because he is the most fascinating person I have ever met. The relationship he has with machines is very moving or touching for me. He drives a...
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    Is it possible to win him back?

    Hello, perhaps somebody can give me an advice. On april 1st I (31 years old) met a guy (32 years old) - let's call him Nick - and I fell in love with him. He fell in love with me as well. Our relationship lasted for 3 weeks. He hurt me so badly all the time. So, I called my girlfriend and she...
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