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Recent content by Jonathan Lees

  1. Jonathan Lees

    Dating Over 40 SUCKS

    the preference certainly seems to be for younger women and a bit older men etc. ive never understood it though, ive only dated women around my age (21) and actually think id enjoy being with a older women, more mature, settled, experienced in life with interesting stories and grounded etc...
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    travel are there many aspies with this interest

    thanks for your responses :) well i was born in Pakistan (christian missionary parents) and lived their till 7 when i came to the UK (counting Scotland, wales and England as seperate for the count of 24). i travelled to a bunch of places as a child and teen with my parents like Switzerland...
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    travel are there many aspies with this interest

    hi, my name is Jonathan and for my age of 21 im pretty well travelled (24 countries), i wondering how many other aspies also like to travel and where people have been? im am in the summer going to embark on my largest stint of travel thus far and very excited.
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    struggling with making close friends

    greetings. im a bit of an extrovert but being an aspie at the same time means that while i enjoy and desire a lot of social interaction i can also really struggle with that social interaction, one hell of a mix to be sure. i enjoy being active and going to events, comedy shows, magic shows...
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    What makes you feel loved?

    i feel loved when i receive a letter, message or call from my ex on the other side of the world, despite being so far away and not seeing one another in person for 11 months she still regularly gives me time, attention and affection and i am always so honoured. she is the only person who has...
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    First and last one night stand!

    firstly it sounds like you had a genuinely lovely time with this girl and maybe had a real connection at least from how you described it. certainly better than one night stands ive had a few weeks definitely isn't too long so i would definitely go for it, it may be awkward going through a...
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    Confused by the actions of someone else

    thanks again people for your response, even if a few are a little of topic they are friendly and nice to hear. this may be close to what it was the more i think about it, but the other way around i.e she wanted sex, and i wanted a relationship. we were sexual together quite a bit before the...
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    Confused by the actions of someone else

    thank you everyone for your responses, i have been extremely honest with her hence my asking if there was any issue, she had the perfect opportunity then to tell me how she felt, if she had just said she was no longer looking for a romantic relationship that would have been fine and i would...
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    Confused by the actions of someone else

    Hello, my name is Jonathan and I am an aspergic Master's student in leicester. For a few months I have been involved with a girl henceforth called T. It was going really well meeting multiple times a week, but then over the Christmas break T who is an exchange student went back to her home...
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    Virgin Shaming

    the chimp stuff, simplified view of sexual relations etc. are things you mentioned, i dont see a strawman.
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    Virgin Shaming

    from reading the above conversation i totally agree with you starving artist.
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    Virgin Shaming

    my opinion is it doesn't matter if you lose it at 16 or 70 and doesn't change anything about you as a person, it certainly didn't for me. its a made up social construct anyway, women's hymens can break from other things, can heal and arent necessarily broken by penetrative sex as for men...
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    Online dating: how has it worked for you?

    Well you can tell them honestly that you don't want to discuss it for one, it is impossible to avoid forever though and will come up eventually, at which point what is wrong with friendly discussion with mutual respect for each others differing opinions.
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    Online dating: how has it worked for you?

    well you're certainly entitled to your political views but its your choice whether it gets in the way of dating, I've dated people who have different political opinions to me and that's been fine because we just avoid discussing it. im single now but have just come out of a relationship...
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    Online dating: how has it worked for you?

    im sick of hearing guys complain about not meeting anyone because of feminism, as far im concerned its just a self defence mechanism to avoid addressing their own issues that are the actual cause of them not meeting anyone i.e acting entitled, being disrespectful etc. in my experience if you're...
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