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    HAPPY BIRTHDAY...EVERYBODY

    Thank you!
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    Does anyone like coloring,drawing or writing ?

    I love to write science fiction. I'm actually a college senior double majoring in Creative Writing and Spanish, though I like Creative Writing the best. I also like to go to my local writing center to take classes and workshops. I've published two stories to date and I have learned that lots of...
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    Why is it that friends hardly ever contact me first?

    I am feeling frustrated because it seems to me that friends don’t reach out to me if I don’t reach out to them first. What’s a reasonable expectation for someone to reach out to you instead of you having to text them and trying to start a conversation that way? I hope that question makes sense...
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    The Oxymoron of Space

    As a follow up to another recent post of mine, I have a question about space in relationships. I don’t get how the people in a relationship can value space to themselves and be offended when they don’t get enough, when, at the same time if someone asks for space the relationship is likely over...
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    The Horror Genre

    I used to be completely obsessed with horror. I went as far as to found a horror club on my college campus, but it died because it was too niche. I recently donated a ton of my horror collection to the library because my psychiatrist has been telling me for the past few years that horror...
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    I've been cut off and I'm struggling to understand why.

    I agree that it gets confusing, but I wouldn't want to be in a sexual relationship until I'm married. I'm 22 now so I've got some time to go with that. Personally, I've never even been on a date. People keep telling me to take things slow. The problem that I have is that I have no idea what that...
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    I've been cut off and I'm struggling to understand why.

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    I've been cut off and I'm struggling to understand why.

    What specifically do you mean by contact the same amount as they contact you? Because it seems to me that girls hardly ever contact me first. Even ones that I don't contact obsessively. Come to think of it, it's the same way for me with both guys and girls. People rarely contact me first in a...
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    I've been cut off and I'm struggling to understand why.

    how would I know that a girl likes me back if she doesn't straight up tell me?
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    I've been cut off and I'm struggling to understand why.

    So I guess that this friendship is hopeless. I unfriended her on facebook and removed her from my contact list so I'll be less tempted to contact her. I suppose the main lesson is that if I have a crush on a girl I shouldn't tell them or flirt with them OR contact them more frequently than they...
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    I've been cut off and I'm struggling to understand why.

    How would she know that I had a crush on her if I never flirted with her or told her? I don't understand.
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    I've been cut off and I'm struggling to understand why.

    Hi. So I'm really confused. I've had a crush on this girl for that I met a little over two months ago. I understand that it's important to just be friends at first, so I've made sure not to tell her about my feelings. I've tried as hard as I can to get to know her. I've asked her how...
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    My back story

    This is probably going to be a little long as I introduce you all to myself. I graduated high school in June of 2013. I wasn't quite sure what to do with myself at that point. I'd applied to two colleges in New York, Syracuse and Cornell. Syracuse accepted me, but turned out to be too expensive...
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    Finding my Identity

    I'm a 22 year old college senior. I'm double majoring in Spanish and Creative Writing. I didn't get diagnosed with Asperger's until I was 19, and so I've been trying to rush through learning social skills over the past few years, trying to catch up with peers who either aren't on the spectrum or...
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    Can't stop thinking of Friend

    Yeah. However, I will say that I text her a lot, though. I don't get obsessed with expecting responses or anything, though.
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