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Luca
Pekka (my partner) and I have realized that we have too much of a routine. Everything is like Groundhog Day. We need to change it up a little and get out of the house more. We don't go anywhere, other than work, the rink, errands. We've gotten a little too comfortable doing nothing. Being married doesn't have to be boring.
oregano
A bigger snowstorm came through last night, 17 February. This is about a half inch. More is coming in waves throughout the week, and it won't get much above freezing until Sunday. Fortunately I'm prepared.

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Luca
My dog is lucky he's cute, because his farts could strip paint off a wall. This is partially how he got one of his many nicknames, "Mr. Poopybutt"
maycontainthunder
maycontainthunder
Dog V4 likes sausage treats. You don't hear the side effects coming. One moment clean air and the next a foul cloud envelops me. He seems to like unleashing his fumes while laid on my lap.
Luca
Luca
Lol. Same with Enzo.

We call one of our cats “Princess Poo” for the same reason… and because she drops Godzilla sized craps in the litter box.

I swear we are functioning adults :p
maycontainthunder
maycontainthunder
"Growing old is mandatory. Growing up is optional.":D
Levelskid
Fun fact: Horses can't burp or vomit.
Luca
Luca
I didn't know cats burped and farted, until I got two of them. Lol
Outdated
Outdated
Many ruminants such as sheep and goats have the same problem. If they eat too much of the wrong thing gases form in the first stomach that they can't get rid of. The stomach bloats bigger and bigger until the lungs are squashed and they can't breath.
Luca
Being a (ice hockey) goalie, I think of something completely different when I watch makeup tutorial videos, and they say to put the eye shadow in your "crease," lol. (It's not an innuendo, it's an actual term for the goalie's designated zone on the ice.) But now I can't hear that in makeup videos without thinking "Stay out of my crease!"
AprilR
AprilR
I like watching make up videos a lot, if i were to play hockey i would prob. have the opposite problem lol
Tony Ramirez
I hate humanity and my life
Aspychata
Aspychata
Sorry. Things are getting you down? l am arguing with the person l live with, life is tiresome to me.
Tony Ramirez
Tony Ramirez
I have a female friend I meet during the summer who cares about me i meet and got more close to last December but I know I will lose her even though she feels different she helped me much more took my many meltdowns.
Aspychata
Aspychata
That's great news. Just concentrate on the time you have with her.
Tony Ramirez
I hate ruining everyone's lives I eventually get to know.
AprilR
AprilR
I used to think that way too, but most people don't think the way we do. They enter and exit other people's lives without caring much. So don't worry about it
UberScout
Walking to the beach again. My father just can’t seem to change his attitude about me no matter how many times he comes out of his craziness. Sad.
UberScout
UberScout
Didn’t make it to the beach unfortunately. Made a wrong turn walking on the road and ended up going a full circle back to Ogden.
Aspychata
Aspychata
Ogden, Utah. Cute town, it was a very small town many years back.
Hazel_1914
At the doctor's office now. This should give me more data for science. Blood pressure 120/81, pretty good!
Hazel_1914
Hazel_1914
We're doing lab tests and in a week I should know more. Time to grow those leukocytes and see what they have inside the DNA itself.
Luca
Getting married in two weeks, and the nerves are starting to kick in. Nothing to do with the relationship, just the pre-wedding jitters that I think everyone gets. It's a big step. Not that anything will be different at all between us, it's really just signing a silly document. Just somehow feels more tangible and real now, and a little anxiety-inducing. But change is hard for most of us, even good change.
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Luca
Luca
@Jonn Nope, no kids for us. I had a hysterectomy a few years ago, and neither of us want kids.
Jonn
Jonn
I am a hardcore antinatalist, btw.
Always have been.
I know way too much about the dark underworld of society. :eek: ;)
Aspychata
Aspychata
Who can afford kids? Kids have so much to contend with. l wasn't planning on having a child.
UberScout
Sorry I didn’t log in for my birthday. We were at the warming shelter the whole time and being stuck downtown actually gave me the chance to fly my sign. I made exactly $30, which is how old I am for my birthday, imagine that!
Luca
Luca
Happy birthday!
Aspychata
Aspychata
Happy birthday. Thirty is a big deal, congrats.
UberScout
UberScout
Thank you all!
Luca
Nothing says “I love you, happy Valentine’s Day!” like getting up at the crack of dawn and sharing a giant bowl of tater tots… at least the bowl is festive!
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tamalito
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From 2008, I think?
Luca
Luca
I absolutely love this photo. What a beautiful capture of a sweet moment between you two! Reminds me a lot of my dog.
Aspychata
Aspychata
Beautiful!! That tail is so busy that the camera shutter speed couldn't catch it.
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