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Who's still a virgin!

You still a V?

  • Yes

    Votes: 2 18.2%

  • No

    Votes: 8 72.7%

  • Unsure.

    Votes: 1 9.1%
  • Total voters
    11
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haha why would a virgin deserve a medal? It's not exactly difficult to not have sex o_O As far as I'm aware it's the losing your virginity bit that actually takes effort :laughing:

Calm down mate, take a deep breath! This isn't a dating site, what sort of 'service' are you expecting?!
 
Never said it was a dating site! Just trying alternative methods! Why's it hard to lose your V when I can just pay for it and get an escort! But no I prefer real love!
 
Markymarkh said:
Never said it was a dating site! Just trying alternative methods! Why's it hard to lose your V when I can just pay for it and get an escort! But no I prefer real love!
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Because getting an escort involves: spending money, finding an escort, finding somewhere to shag, the physical exertion of having sex. And many people want to be in a relationship first, and all the effort that that requires. Going out 'on the pull' also requires a fair bit of effort. Being a virgin just involves sitting around doing nothing (I do this everyday, it's not difficult. But I guess I'll take the medal anyway.)
 
Anyways it's not too difficult, getting an escort is easiest solution probably! Rather than trying to chat strangers up and buy drinks all the time!
 
Depends how attractive you are and how drunk the other people are. For me the difficult bit of a night out is getting horny men to leave me alone. And yet that is still easier than going through the effort of taking one of those blokes home for shag. Seriously, that sounds exhausting :sleepy:

Markymarkh said:
When I'm dictator! They will come to me when I snap my fingers! Lol.
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*blink* who will? Escorts?
 
Markymarkh said:
Never said it was a dating site! Just trying alternative methods! Why's it hard to lose your V when I can just pay for it and get an escort! But no I prefer real love!
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Can please you enlighten me with your definition of 'real love' so I can understand more clearly what you are trying to communicate here.
 
NothingToSeeHere said:
Ah I see, so by 'real love' you mean rape?
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While this is quite an astute observation of what might be intended, I prefer we do not get into that territory to discuss whether or not something might constitute as such.

No, it's not a warning, but just a general heads-up to keep this thread from escalating into something staff has to intervene in.
 
I've got an idea what it might be like or what I've heard from others. Could be a wonderful thing falling in love, I just hope so!
 
What I would really like to know, is that someone clicked 'unsure' whether they are a virgin in the poll?
 
Well that was me who clicked unsure, when I was thirteen there was a couple of girls who were a bit more mature than me and went under a willow tree and they came onto me and experimented with me trying to have intercourse with me but I was too young and immature to understand what was going on and nothing much really happened as I wasn't turned on. The girl was 14 and a year later she got pregnant by some othe dude lol. I ended up with no luck after that! So I'm probably half a virgin I don't know! Sure this happens a lot with the young ones when most of them don't know what they really are doing. Hehe.
 
Mia
It is possible to be unsure of one's own virginity.
Or to be unaware of the status.

A friend of mine didn't realize that her boyfriend had
taken advantage of her drunken-ness one weekend,
until he tried to have sex with her the next week
and neither of them had been drinking.

He was surprised that she didn't want to because he
said she hadn't objected 'last time.' And she didn't
know there had been a first time, last time, or an any
time. It prompted her to take stock of her drinking.
 
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