• Feeling isolated? You're not alone.

    Join 20,000+ people who understand exactly how your day went. Whether you're newly diagnosed, self-identified, or supporting someone you love – this is a space where you don't have to explain yourself.

    Join the Conversation → It's free, anonymous, and supportive.

    As a member, you'll get:

    • A community that actually gets it – no judgment, no explanations needed
    • Private forums for sensitive topics (hidden from search engines)
    • Real-time chat with others who share your experiences
    • Your own blog to document your journey

    You've found your people. Create your free account

Whats Your Sexuality?

apt-get said:
Probably pansexual. I could see myself being attracted to people of all gender identities.
Click to expand...

I guess this was true last year when I wrote this, but I guess now I'm basically a lesbian. If I'm going to have sex, I need the type of intimacy that one can only get with someone that can feel what I feel. I can't get that with guys and don't really want to try. Plus, girls are just so beautiful.
 
JuniperBug said:
I'm pansexual. I'm most attracted to a confident personality and an androgynous appearance.

Also, just for fun... and because who doesn't love My Little Pony...
d0d79d3db43eb056633abf8f06f8fd3d.jpg
Click to expand...
Wait... does one have to play a stringed instrument to be asexual?
 
The easiest for me to explain is "it's complicated"
It varies according to circumstances and time.
I would say I am either bisexual or pansexual if i have to select one. Since i have been with both male and female (I haven't been with other gender identities. I feel i could be with any gender identities, but i still have to see if that is true)
 
I consider myself straight because I think some boys are cute and I've only pictured myself in a relationship with one. I don't know why though, because I also think some girls are very easy on the eye and when girls with a certain body type get naked I get excited. Mostly I just don't care what sexual organs someone has or what gender they identify as, and I'm ashamed of myself for feeling the need to answer a question about something that frankly is nobody's business.
 
Hetero male. To be blunt, I love the P! But, I am very not-macho in a very insecure, macho culture, so am very very often thought gay. So much so, that I feel a kinship with gays, having shared in their persecutions to a certain extent, which doesn't mix well with my slight quotient of homophobia! While I am very attracted to women, I do not so much act out my culture's masculine roles, or partake of it's pasttimes, to the degree expected of me. I am always horny, yet not promiscuous at all. I have never hooked up, had a one-nighter, or casual sex. I am direly monogamous. And, I too find intelligence a big turn on in a woman.
 
I'm just queer as in not heterosexual. I like that the word "queer" is just sort of vague because that's what my sexuality is like. I just kinda like some people and I don't usually care much for their gender but I also don't care that much for specific labels. I'm just queer. That's it.
 
Bisexual. Guys, girls...it's all good. Never been in a relationship, though, even though I desperately want to experience one.
 
I did a further read on the sexuality/romance aspect and theories recently. (Sorry if is too much information but it's turned to be a recent interest of mine).
Basically it says, that it kinda divides/relates in 4 aspects, which are as follow. Also it says that sexuality is fluid, so it could be that a person's sexual orientation identifies as heterosexual, then bisexual, and then lesbian or gay.

In my case it's as follow:
Gender identity: I identify as androgyne/agender. I don't distinguish the stablished binary gender. I mentally think both as male and female. Probably because in my house gender roles were not impossed and for instance, I got taught both domestic routines. I have no prefered pronouns, althought I'm mostly refered as cis-woman/female.

Sexual Orientation: Bisexual/Pansexual. Since I don't distinguish the stablished binary gender, if I'm attracted to someone their gender is not that relevant for me, I care about the person, that is, their interests, behaviour, emotions we share, and I think those (interests, behaviour & emotions) are genderless too. That doesn't mean I don't have a prefered physical type but that's not a must for me to fall for someone.

Sexual Attraction: Demisexual. I only can be intimate with someone if there's a previous emotional bond. That aspect is more relevant for me to fall for or date someone than their gender or physical attractiveness.

Romantic Attraction: I still have no clue about that one, I honestly find it confusing because apparently my feel of romance is different than most people seem to say it feels or expresses. Most my crushes were merely platonic, and yes I dated but just once, it was a long term relationship (we even got engaged) on a long distance relationship.

Related to that topic I could talk further about the 5 languages of love and the 6 types of love if someone is interested.
 
Bisexual (maybe pansexual) genderfluid, but I feel more manly than girly by a lot.

In case you don't know what genderfluid is, it's basically you wake up in the morning and you feel like a man one day and a woman the next. You can also feel like both or neither. I typically feel like neither, but slightly more masculine.
 
Salmongirl17 said:
Bisexual (maybe pansexual) genderfluid, but I feel more manly than girly by a lot.

In case you don't know what genderfluid is, it's basically you wake up in the morning and you feel like a man one day and a woman the next. You can also feel like both or neither. I typically feel like neither, but slightly more masculine.
Click to expand...

Ohhhhh....like "gender FLUIDITY."
Not just---fluid/liquid. :eek: OK.
 
apt-get said:
I guess this was true last year when I wrote this, but I guess now I'm basically a lesbian. If I'm going to have sex, I need the type of intimacy that one can only get with someone that can feel what I feel. I can't get that with guys and don't really want to try. Plus, girls are just so beautiful.
Click to expand...

I can understand that. I "knew" I was straight all through high school. I didn't look at my first gay porn until I was at least 24, and it was kind of an accident (seriously! I was looking for straight porn!). My own reaction...surprised me. I did spend some time confused, but now I've settled in. I'm a lot less interested in women nowadays, but I do like people who fall outside the gender binary so bisexual is still the most accurate term for me, not pansexual. I guess that's male and third gender, instead of male and female. LOL.
 
although i'm straight (not "curious" or anything.. not even interested in anal sex with a female or receiving a blowjob from a female)...... people see me as asexual (or gay, depending on them really) because outside of this morality bubble thing i have setup (which, although equal to my own experiences, excludes a LOT of people) i don't have an interest in anybody so i don't look at anybody. i'll notice somebody based on their appearance, but a guy with a purple shirt will grab my attention before most girls in tight clothing will (because girls wearing tight clothing here is common, doesn't matter how "hot" she is... i don't know if she fits in my morality bubble so i'm not interested until i think she might)...... if a girl has way too little clothing on i'll look at her. but it's not the "wow she's hot" way every other guy will.. it's more of a "she really needs to put more clothing on" way. especially if she's an adult (lets say 30ish.. old enough to clearly be out of any "phases" or peer pressure school stuff)

on a scientific level there's minor curiosity like "what do they look like naked" but that thinking applies to everything for me. i just want to know as much as i can about everything i can whether it's seeing everybody in the world naked so i can start cataloging them (lol yeah.. i know.. sounds screwy. i like sorting and organizing) or see every animal i can to identify different patterns in fur and face to identify male/female at a glance...... or, anything. rocks, spoons, fabric, whatever.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.

New Threads

Top Bottom