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What faux pas, have you Made not knowing

Binary_Bark

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So, more than once,
A colleague showed me a photo of a ring being welded, then a photo later showing the final work. (Art project, later learned)
One, the welding was bad, so I said so straight. Later the finished project: I said, "It looks like someone just took a bicycle wheel and placed it in a block of cement."

.............. Turns out it was his daughter's university art project🤦‍♀️

Does your mouth ever just run off and go? Later you're like, 'What the?'
 
Umm, yes guilty. Though it happens way less. A homeschool parent asked what l thought of her daughter's Halloween costume and blurted out that she looked like Big Bird on Sesame Street, and that maybe wasn't a good thing to say. I also asked a lady how many months she was along, yeah, oops, not, meaning not pregnant. After that huge mistake, l don't ask random questions for fear of being beat up. :)
 
I literally don't know. They haven't gotten back to me. It is certain I have made some. I am not a social guy.
 
I’ve made quite a few of them lol.

One I’m still embarrassed about was when I was on the train, and a guy was chattering very loudly on the phone, to the point where it was disruptive, and I turned to the woman next to me and said “This guy’s kinda oblivious, huh?”
She replied “That’s my son.”
 
I’ve made quite a few of them lol.

One I’m still embarrassed about was when I was on the train, and a guy was chattering very loudly on the phone, to the point where it was disruptive, and I turned to the woman next to me and said “This guy’s kinda oblivious, huh?”
She replied “That’s my son.”

Id be embarrassed to admit it was my son! 😆

 
As a 10 year old asking at the dinner table if a girl was on a diet because she didn't put anything on her plate. I got the "How very dare you!!!" treatment from my older cousin who I thought was a friend. Then afterwards it was total disgusted silence like I had commited a murder 😂
 
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When my friend at work gave me constipation relief stuff because she knows I get constipated but I have a bit of a fear of taking anything for constipation so I kinda squirmed and threw it into her bag. She didn't let on but I think my impulsive reaction might have alarmed her a bit. It's out of character for me really because usually I am thankful for any gift people give me even if I don't really like it. But she didn't go out and buy it, she said she just had too many in her cupboard at home (her friend she lives with gets constipated).
 
A friend of a friend asked me if I had seen a movie before. I did. I explained that I liked it but wondered what it could have been more so, if they had a bigger budget because it seemed to be made at a very restricted cost. They told me it was their other friend's film and had just under a million dollar budget. I was shocked, but immediately pointed out that one of my crew's films was made for about $16,000 only. Butthurt was had that day. Oh, well.
 
I was well known at the bike shop, and was asked my opinion on the appearance of a new bike with nice light blue paint, and as many gold-anodized components as were available. It was striking, but as a jeweler I'm sensitive to mixing gold and silver in one piece, and found it jarring. I just said it looks like hell - it should be all one colour or the other. The proud new owner was an employee, present.

At a car show, I saw a friend near a mid-50s Nash Rambler station wagon, a mass of smooth but conflicting shapes in bad two-tone paint. I ridiculed it, not knowing that the owner was nearby, a co-worker of his, and the woman who had gone on her honeymoon in it.

At an Alternative Faire, there was a large Tipi I was interested in. Several people were in small discussions, but one was standing alone on the periphery. I asked him about it, and he replied, but seemed reluctant. I asked if he was with the exhibit, and he said no, he was in his own exhibit, advocating the non-use of tents. I think he should at least have had a poncho, or laid down.
 
Being honest? Most of them, I think.

Been arrested for being naked in public So Many Times before I quit drinking.
 
My girlfriend's 4 year-old daughter once crawled up into my lap and fell asleep with her head resting on my shoulder, as her mother and I were watching television.

After a time she began to feel a bit warm and I put my hand over her forehead, thinking she was running a temperature. Whispered to her mother that she did feel a bit warm. She just giggled a bit which seemed odd at the moment. Then she said, "That's not her forehead that's warm.

Then she slid her hand palm-up under her somewhat short nightie.

When she pulled her hand out it became obvious why her daughter felt so warm on my lap. I felt so stupid, but then my girlfriend said something like "Welcome to parenting and the three p's". Though I just didn't expect to be "baptized" in such a classic manner. :oops:
 
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