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What experts reveal about women's attraction to older men

Personal experience from a senior woman here that never married:
Age really had nothing to do with whom I had relationships with.
Like interests and life desires were the most important.

Four major relationships in my life and each ended for different reasons. I don't think age had anything to do with the whys.

One was 3 years older than me and ended because it took a while for him to be open about what he wanted out of life and a relationship. He wanted to control how I believed, (religion), and eventually tried to change me into what he wanted.

The relationship that lasted the longest was with a man 30 years older than me.
We had more in common and enjoyed each other's company.
Neither of us were interested in a life together at first. Twelve years later, I was. He wasn't. Said he never would be with anyone.
He lived a long, healthy, active life alone until his death at age 98!
 
So women want older, more established men? As a man in his 40s I support this. I don't see a problem. ;)
It has become a problem in the woke era, because older men are "not allowed" to want younger women.
This is presumably a side-effect of the continuous lowering of the thresholds for offense for any form of XY-> XX interaction. Asymmetrical social mores in the age of equality /lol.

But the kind of "older XY" that can attract younger XX's has more options than any other group of XY's except perhaps the "top 1%" of equivalent-age XYs (top 1% in terms of either "hotness" or resource access, so maybe 1.9% total).

The near future will be interesting: the supply of "offline marks" for younger women is shrinking fast, and excluding older XY's will accelerate that.
 
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