@VictorR gave a useful link in post number 16.Can anyone help to make sure I've got the correct definition?
I also thought your explanation was pretty good.
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@VictorR gave a useful link in post number 16.Can anyone help to make sure I've got the correct definition?
Ah, thanks
I wish I could do that. In my case, my social issue is not about any form of motivation or willpower or anything like that. It is about blindness. Vision does not have an exclusive on blindness. I am truly blind to social interactions. A visually blind person would naturally be fearful if injected into a foreign environment where they had to navigate across unknown obstacles - at the same rate as a sighted person. Obviously, trip-ups are inevitable.For me ego was the key to getting past social anxiety, which for the most part came from my expertise in my trade.
I often use the term, "headroom". Do you think that is along that line?I think of spoons as something between bandwidth and resilience, if that makes any sense?