Marriage is proper on the rocks now after twelve years together. I couldn't get to grips with why she was so needy for attention all the time. She claims to be living in an emotional desert and I didn't get that at all. Then she found an article in a magazine whist on a train and it described me to a "T". The article was about Aspergers in adults and people who display many of the traits of Aspergers. Took the test scored 33; did I win? It explains enough to me though and my upcoming psychiatry sessions will do a full evaluation to confirm or deny my suspicions. Sad to hear that other folk are losing jobs over this, I'm fortunate to be an engineer so the visual thinker in me is in his element. Being in the military seems to allow my uncanny ability to call an asshole and asshole to be forgiven and sometimes applauded!
The traits or full Aspergers I carry is both a superpower and a hindrance. A superpower at work and in my many engineering based hobbies but a massive pain in the rectum when it comes to dealing with those close to me on an emotional level. The strange thing is though, I can break it down logically to get to the root of the problem and understand the issues but my relationship with my wife is (frustratingly) the one thing in this world that I can't apply my brain to, to repair.
She took the test...
...she scored eleven.
The traits or full Aspergers I carry is both a superpower and a hindrance. A superpower at work and in my many engineering based hobbies but a massive pain in the rectum when it comes to dealing with those close to me on an emotional level. The strange thing is though, I can break it down logically to get to the root of the problem and understand the issues but my relationship with my wife is (frustratingly) the one thing in this world that I can't apply my brain to, to repair.
She took the test...
...she scored eleven.