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Cactus,No one ever tries to talk to me when I'm out. I must be REALLY weird.
Distance yourself from people like that. If you can't because you live with them, work towards gaining greater independence so you can. And please. Get out of a metro city if you are in one (sounds like you are). They tend to suck up souls, and those people snapping on you for no reason are zombies.Every time I go into the city I have people who I didn't even make eye contact with start talking crap. I think It's because It was a weekday and I wasn't dressed in business casual...idk that's all I can figure. There was no reason, I didn't even look at them. Anybody have a similar experience? I didn't have twinkie smeared all over my face, I wasn't doing anything at all to provoke these random utterances. This happened several times so it's not the person. Don't give me the "I've never seen people act like that" bit. I wasn't stoned I was stone cold straight.
Well, needless to say, I don't like people that much anymore. You wouldn't either. I used to be a hippy and was all like, love everybody but not anymore. I find myself filled with hatred. The people who were my friends and family are just like everybody else. I feel like they only have me around because of pity and I hate that! They feel better about themselves because, in their withered brains, they are better than somebody. I am so angry now It is getting unhealthy.
Can somebody please tell me they have had a similar experience and how they dealt with it. PLEASE?!?
Every time I go into the city I have people who I didn't even make eye contact with start talking crap. I think It's because It was a weekday and I wasn't dressed in business casual...idk that's all I can figure. There was no reason, I didn't even look at them. Anybody have a similar experience? I didn't have twinkie smeared all over my face, I wasn't doing anything at all to provoke these random utterances. This happened several times so it's not the person. Don't give me the "I've never seen people act like that" bit. I wasn't stoned I was stone cold straight.
Well, needless to say, I don't like people that much anymore. You wouldn't either. I used to be a hippy and was all like, love everybody but not anymore. I find myself filled with hatred. The people who were my friends and family are just like everybody else. I feel like they only have me around because of pity and I hate that! They feel better about themselves because, in their withered brains, they are better than somebody. I am so angry now It is getting unhealthy.
Can somebody please tell me they have had a similar experience and how they dealt with it. PLEASE?!?
I blame social media for people acting that way. Their brains have been rewired so they have no attention span whatsoever. They are basically just pigeons...a pigeon sees something in it's peripheral view and immediately flies off. A person sees someone they don't know, I'll hurl an insult at them.Distance yourself from people like that. If you can't because you live with them, work towards gaining greater independence so you can. And please. Get out of a metro city if you are in one (sounds like you are). They tend to suck up souls, and those people snapping on you for no reason are zombies.
And if you need to escape for a while, there's nothing wrong with isolating down to minimize your negative contact with others. Just don't isolate yourself down from yourself. Treat yourself well. Recharge to face the world again someday.
I'm not going to argue with your experiences, at all, because it does indeed seem like many have gotten swept up into darkness lately. Part of it is stress, I think. The other part has been some negative influences and extremism in our culture. But this too, like all things, will pass over time. The benefit it's bringing is that it's waking some people up, BIG TIME. And they're doing things to bring about change.
I.E. Nope. You're not alone at all. And a lot of us are kind of hiding out, waiting for the storm to blow over, while we recharge to fight again another day.
@ftfippsA person sees someone they don't know, I'll hurl an insult at them.
I couldn't agree more. I avoided eye contact with everyone but family for many years. These injustices in places of employment you speak of go on every day. Don't try to make sense of it. Just continue to be a person of morals.People who make a thing of the "no eye contact" issue seriously need to shut up IMO.
Like in 2007 I had an interview with a local branch of Remploy in Town, and this stupid woman delighted in pointing out, amongst other things, my lack of eye contact, I didn't even know it was an issue at the time either.
Everything was wrong with the interview, by rights I should've sued the knickers off her for blatant discrimination IMO, she even accused me to my face of LYING about every word of my CV because even now, almost 12 years later, I don't have any named references on my CV.
I blame social media for people acting that way. Their brains have been rewired so they have no attention span whatsoever. They are basically just pigeons...a pigeon sees something in it's peripheral view and immediately flies off. A person sees someone they don't know, I'll hurl an insult at them.
@Fino I wasn't badmouthing people with disabilities. It is unfortunate that you felt offended. Sometimes I say things less than tactfully and I do not think of how it may offend people, and I never want to be offensive, especially on here. I just have strong feelings and they come across in my writing. Please know I would never do that.
It's more than social media. It's the culture. Everyone is rushed, overworked, and underpaid. They're all trying to live the good life, give the impression of being happy and successful, and they're not. They're made to feel like they're insignificant as human beings if they're not. That it's their fault if they're not. And that they should look down on anyone that's not. Kiss the boots off anyone that is. There's no land to connect and ground with. No peace and quiet to unwind with. And nowhere to go to scream.I blame social media for people acting that way. Their brains have been rewired so they have no attention span whatsoever. They are basically just pigeons...a pigeon sees something in it's peripheral view and immediately flies off. A person sees someone they don't know, I'll hurl an insult at them.