Kaylee
Well-Known Member
I saw in a thread the other day about Autistic burnout or regression and it got me thinking, has anyone here ever had those moments when you seem to try so hard to do something but it doesnt ever feel like you actually accomplished anything?
maybe its because i also have depression (which i recently researched in how it works with aspergers and found some very interesting but not surprising information) but it almost seems like it is the background radiation of my life.
i am a firm believer in the idea that there is no one answer or reason to anything but it is a combination of things but i am trying to narrow it down, i grew up in an accepting family but because i was so intelligent i feel like any time i fail that people look down on me as its something i should have been able to do. i havent lived the most comfortable life and for the most part its my fault. even though i have intelligence which is in the top 2% (maybe even 1%) i cant seem to do anything correct. i have never been able to handle school, i have never been able to hold down a job (had one in highschool for a year but that was the longest by a long time) and i cannot pick up on social ques or even keep friends.
i would be open to admit things in highschool were a little bit better, i was able to conduct myself a little better and hold myself together but it was by no strech really that good. but to my earlier point no matter how hard i try to hold down jobs, be social or anything i never feel like i actually accomplish things, things seem to come so easy to others, people can hold down jobs with no issue, school is something that they have no issue with and conversing with people is just natural. yet i sit here feeling like i have to try ten times harder to not even reach a point where things come natural to others.
It just reminds me of a Quote TV show from a father with an aspie son, "I dont want him to feel like everything in life is a war"
maybe its because i also have depression (which i recently researched in how it works with aspergers and found some very interesting but not surprising information) but it almost seems like it is the background radiation of my life.
i am a firm believer in the idea that there is no one answer or reason to anything but it is a combination of things but i am trying to narrow it down, i grew up in an accepting family but because i was so intelligent i feel like any time i fail that people look down on me as its something i should have been able to do. i havent lived the most comfortable life and for the most part its my fault. even though i have intelligence which is in the top 2% (maybe even 1%) i cant seem to do anything correct. i have never been able to handle school, i have never been able to hold down a job (had one in highschool for a year but that was the longest by a long time) and i cannot pick up on social ques or even keep friends.
i would be open to admit things in highschool were a little bit better, i was able to conduct myself a little better and hold myself together but it was by no strech really that good. but to my earlier point no matter how hard i try to hold down jobs, be social or anything i never feel like i actually accomplish things, things seem to come so easy to others, people can hold down jobs with no issue, school is something that they have no issue with and conversing with people is just natural. yet i sit here feeling like i have to try ten times harder to not even reach a point where things come natural to others.
It just reminds me of a Quote TV show from a father with an aspie son, "I dont want him to feel like everything in life is a war"