Soleil
Well-Known Member
I believe there's a stereotype of autistic people being extremely invasive and asking personal questions because they have trouble with social conventions and don't realize that they're being invasive.
I have a generally good grasp of social norms for the most part, understand when people are upset, and so on. But I realize that I have no idea what's going on around me because I don't ask any questions. I figure if they want me to know something, then they'll tell me. But usually I only learn what's going on when I overhear people talking.
For example, my mom went out for dinner. I assumed it was a date, but she didn't say, so I didn't ask. I only know what happened (it was a date, he didn't call back) because I overheard her talking about it with her granddaughter.
Is this common? Not asking questions because too afraid of being nosy, instead of asking too many questions because you don't realize you're being nosy?
I have a generally good grasp of social norms for the most part, understand when people are upset, and so on. But I realize that I have no idea what's going on around me because I don't ask any questions. I figure if they want me to know something, then they'll tell me. But usually I only learn what's going on when I overhear people talking.
For example, my mom went out for dinner. I assumed it was a date, but she didn't say, so I didn't ask. I only know what happened (it was a date, he didn't call back) because I overheard her talking about it with her granddaughter.
Is this common? Not asking questions because too afraid of being nosy, instead of asking too many questions because you don't realize you're being nosy?