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Some people tend to confuse cultural appreciation with cultural appropriation. There is nothing wrong with admiring a culture so deeply that you follow its teachings in your own life. I've had the occasional person climb on my back over this and I don't bother arguing with them. Fanatics. I tell them to bite my arse and move on.NOW I get the motivation for asking such a question.
My husband is Finnish (more specifically Finnish/Swedish-American, if anyone wants total clarity here) and a lot of people find my interest in his culture, and the fact that I've sort of adopted his culture into my own life, very weird and some people have even claimed that it's "problematic."Some people tend to confuse cultural appreciation with cultural appropriation. There is nothing wrong with admiring a culture so deeply that you follow its teachings in your own life. I've had the occasional person climb on my back over this and I don't bother arguing with them. Fanatics. I tell them to bite my arse and move on.
I have a deep admiration for the Japanese worldview. Particularly Shinto and Wabi Sabi. I've tried to adopt these practices and this outlook in my own life. I don't claim that I am Japanese or that I am even doing any of it correctly, but I think they're onto something that can improve anyone's life, not just the lives of people who are Japanese.I don't understand what is problematic about appreciating and being interested in another culture, especially if that is a culture that you've married into.