- Thought this was a different way of presenting the need for downtime to people.
- Without mentioning autism and adding that problem .of it not being understood.
- I'm calling it the : Small Talk Hangover.
- Click to the link for the author and the in depth article.
- Some people think introverts avoid social situations.
- This isn't actually true; they just need more time to recharge after a lot of social stimulation.
- It's because they have a low threshold for dopamine, so they are easily overwhelmed.
- In contrast, extroverts have a very high threshold so can keep going for longer.
- Introverts can learn to use their differences as a skill, rather than a hindrance.
The main article here :
http://www.businessinsider.com/what-its-like-to-be-an-introvert-and-what-everyone-gets-wrong-2018-5 small talk hangover
Introverts hate small talk
Introverts thrive on social interaction, just as many people do. They just do it in a different way to people who are more extroverted. For instance, a "social butterfly" extrovert may like to meet 50 people at an event, and get a buzz from talking to as many people as possible. Meanwhile, an introvert probably aims to get to know just two new people, but they will hope to foster the beginnings of a deep relationship.
This is one reason introverts often hate small talk, which Neo calls "small-talk disorder." It also means they will consistently be overwhelmed and need to rest afterward, sometimes sleeping for up to 18 hours at a time.
Introversion is not an insult; it's just a different way of living to other people. And wherever you are on the introversion-extroversion spectrum, the most important thing is learning how to use your differences to your advantage.
"When you spend time having fun or resting in your introvert hangovers, you can accelerate your professional and personal growth," Neo said. "The more comfortable you are with telling people: 'I have an introvert hangover; this is the time for myself. I'm blocking these chunks of time dedicated to me,' the more you are able to own yourself as an introvert — rather than thinking there's something wrong with you."
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