How often do you misinterpret what others mean? It can be about anything from facial expression, to a school/ work assignment, to a point someone has been trying to get to in a conversation... I have this issue so damn often. If people are not specific about their needs and wants and opinions, I feel like I'm in the middle of the woods at night. When I was younger I didn't give a ****. Most of the times I didn't even pay much attention to what people were saying. Now I have to pay attention but no matter how much attention I pay if people don't lay everything out in a certain way the meaning of the message will be lost for me. I know that it seems to be pretty common issue for spectrum folks but it's one of those things that is not obvious (like some repetitive behaviors or something) and is not understood by lots of NTs and that's frustrating. A simple and a quite silly example: today in a grocery store I was buying a bag of Pretzel M&Ms. I've never heard anyone calling them anything but Pretzel M&Ms, so the cashier asks me: "Do you like M&Ms Pretzel?" And I didn't make the connection. I was standing there staring at her trying to figure out what she means, pretended that I didn't hear. She said it again but this time pointed at the bag. And only then I reluctantly made a connection and replied. I've heard that flexibility of mind can be improved but to be honest, after so many years making the same mistakes over and over again I'm not so sure that it can. I mean it's obvious that your mind does become more flexible if you put some effort into it's development but till what level?
What do you guys thing about it?
One more thing... it might be different with writing though...not always but in some cases.
What do you guys thing about it?
One more thing... it might be different with writing though...not always but in some cases.
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