Sigma males & females

[thejuice]

"You can say I'm a dreamer, but I'm not the only one..."

 

[Jonn]

11 Weird Habits ALL Sigma Males Aspie Males Have​

I have just started watching this video, but it occurs to me that they could be talking about Aspie males.

 

[Jonn]

I give it an 8/10.
But I don't take these videos too seriously.
They are more for fun and identifying traits within yourself.

P.S.
Men should not speak for women.
Adios, amigos.

 

[Jonn]

It is spooky how epically insightful I am.
I just found this, which jells with what I have speculated about.
The plot thickens.

12 Reasons Why Sigma Males Are Neurodivergent​

There’s something different about Sigma males—and it’s not just their lone-wolf lifestyle. It’s deeper. It’s neurological. In this eye-opening video, we explore 12 compelling reasons why Sigma males often fall under the neurodivergent spectrum—not as a flaw, but as a rare gift. While society rewards conformity, Sigma males naturally move against the grain. Their brains are wired to question, to observe deeply, to feel without showing, and to thrive in solitude. These traits aren’t random—they reflect a unique cognitive style that breaks traditional molds.From emotional intensity and hyper-focus to social fatigue and deep moral reasoning, Sigma males often exhibit patterns associated with neurodivergence—especially when it comes to how they interact with the world, process information, and express their true identity.

 

[Jonn]

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What You’ll Learn in This Video: • The link between Sigma thinking and neurodivergent traits • Why Sigma males often feel “out of place” in typical social settings • How their emotional depth mimics traits seen in ASD, ADHD, and HSP profiles • The reason Sigma males crave solitude but possess intense internal complexity • How society misunderstands their silence, focus, and resistance to groupthink

 

[vergil96]

Ah, yeah, the alpha male talk

Sigma is alpha but introverted

 

[Jonn]

Damn!
This video is GOLD!

You are not broken.
You are just running a different program.

He thinks in non-linear layers, not lines.
His thoughts don't line up like dominoes.
They explode like fireworks.
What others call "confusing", he calls clarity.
When you ask him a question, his answer might seem like it came out of nowhere.
You'll mention 'A' and he'll immediately bring up 'Z', something seemingly unrelated, but in his mind, he has already connected the dots.
He doesn't think in timelines.
He thinks in constellations.
Ideas float in space, connecting in webs that don't always follow a linear path, but still form a picture, just one not everyone can see.
That's why people often misunderstand his logic.
They say he is over-complicating things, going off topic or missing the point.
But the Truth is, he is already past the point.
This sort of nonlinear thinking is a classic sign of neurodivergence.
His brain is built to think differently, not slower.
Not broken, different.
You are misunderstood because you are thinking ahead of the curve.

At this rate, I'll be transcribing the entire video.
I suggest you watch it instead.

 

[Jonn]

Ah, yeah, the alpha male talk

Sigma is alpha but introverted

I beg to differ, sorry.

 

[Jonn]

Number 2:
They have a deeply personal code, and it's non-negotiable.
Sigma males live by a set of rules no one else can see, but to them, those rules are everything.
This isn't about following society's checklist, or copying what others do.
Their code is deeply personal, born from their own internal compass, an unshakable set of principles that guide every choice, every step.
What's wild is this code isn't taught or learned the usual way.
It's hardwired into them, like it's part of their neurological makeup.
If their code says honesty is non-negotiable, they won't sugarcoat the Truth just to keep peace.
And if independence is their right, they won't let anyone cage them, no matter who that person is.
It is about staying True to themselves in a world that constantly asks them to be someone else.
That kind of unyielding integrity may seem stubborn or cold to outsiders, but it is actually their superpower.

 

[vergil96]

I beg to differ, sorry.

Why?

 

[Jonn]

Number 3:
Authority doesn't intimidate him, it irritates him.
His brain doesn't respond to hierarchy, it responds to logic.
If it doesn't make sense, if it isn't fair, it goes against his internal code, he's not doing it, period.
He doesn't follow the crowd.
He questions the path.
He doesn't respect titles, he respects the Truth.
Sigma males are wired to think independently.
Their neurodivergence gives them a low tolerance for hypocrisy.
He is not trying to be difficult.
He is trying to stay True.
His resistance isn't defiance for the sake of ego, it is a deep, internal filter that runs every command through logic and integrity before he acts.
You weren't meant to obey.
You were built to think.

 

[Jonn]

Why?

Alpha males tend to assume a leadership role.
Sigmas are not interested in that at all.
I am speaking from experience here.
Responsibility is the last thing I want.

 

[vergil96]

Alpha males tend to assume a leadership role.
Sigmas are not interested in that at all.
I am speaking from experience here.
Responsibility is the last thing I want.

But sigmas are the cool ones, like alphas

 

[Jonn]

But sigmas are the cool ones, like alphas

I prefer the Sigma model over the Alpha.

 

[vergil96]

I prefer the Sigma model over the Alpha.

Me too, the alpha is for extraverts and a bit too aggressive

 

[Jonn]

Me too, the alpha is for extraverts and a bit too aggressive

Alphas might want to influence me, but they won't.
I just do my own thang.
That is the essence of a Sigma after all.

 

[velociraptor]

But sigmas are the cool ones, like alphas

If you say so.

 

[Judge]

By this explanation, absolutely. Though in my own case I don't see it as relative to remaining single.

As far as it allegedly gaining popularity, I'm oblivious to it. Which probably reinforces my preference for operating outside those "traditional social hierarchies".

"Sigma males are often described as independent, self-reliant men who prefer to operate outside traditional social hierarchies, contrasting with alpha males who seek leadership and dominance. This term has gained popularity in online culture, particularly among those who identify with its traits of solitude and non-conformity."

 

[Ronald Zeeman]

Always been a sigma male really pissed me off over the years could never get promotion at work, kept upgrading education, qualified to be quality manager or lab supervisor, very annoying until I retired, happy now.

 

[velociraptor]

I'm just me. Don't really worry about what my label is, I'm more concerned with enjoy my life from one day to the next.