We're going to visit our DH's family in a couple weeks, and they are wanting to get a family picture of all 16 of us together. We think DS6 has Aspergers (we're getting ready to start evaluations), and he HATES having his picture taken. We tried a year ago when we traveled there to get a family picture, and DS ended up frustrating everyone because he adamantly refused to comply. I told DH's family this time that DH, DD, and I would gladly take a picture, but I'm not going to fight that battle with DS. They are upset with me. But the thing is DS already has so much trouble every time we visit there b/c there are 8 kids (newborn-8 years old), 4 very yappy dogs, and Grandpa likes to play music and TV so loud we can't hear each other talk. It's just way too over-stimulating for DS. I don't feel it's fair to him to make him undergo one more thing when he's already on overload. And I can't really tell DH's family this because they don't believe DS has Aspergers. ("He's just a normal little boy!") Wdyt? Am I being difficult in this situation? Should I just try everything I can to make DS take the picture?