Ok to lie to myself and others?

[DarkLady]

That sucks have you any group type hobbies?

no

 

[Nisk]

no

Are you willing to try some?
That's usually a good place to meet people, try taking a class of some sort. Like cooking or painting who knows. It's been a longtime since I tried to meet women but I met my wife in a group

 

[ancusmitis]

Most people would be able to figure out if you were inexperienced or not if they've had any sort of a sex life. Fantasy and reality can be very different.

This is very true. A lot of stuff in porn is only there for the camera angles, and isn't actually all that pleasant. A lot of stuff in erotica is even more unlikely, because you no longer have the limitations imposed by actors needing to physically contort into the required pose. Some people even prefer things--positions, anatomies, and so on--specifically because they are so improbable in real life.

 

[DarkLady]

This is very true. A lot of stuff in porn is only there for the camera angles, and isn't actually all that pleasant. A lot of stuff in erotica is even more unlikely, because you no longer have the limitations imposed by actors needing to physically contort into the required pose. Some people even prefer things--positions, anatomies, and so on--specifically because they are so improbable in real life.

I doubt most people follow the Kama Sutra. Don't most people just do top, bottom, or behind?

 

[Suiseiseki]

I do want to convince myself that the things I do alone count because I don't like believing that you need other people so much when other people just don't want people like us.

Life isn't fair, though from my own experience loosing my virginity meant very little, I didn't care for her, it was a thing of, I suppose convenience.
I've never liked dating sites, though they're not for AS men, and I understand that.