I love the times when I am on my own ie hubby is at work, because then I feel I can be myself and not have him breathing down my neck, but today, which is such a day as having the whole day to myself, I am panicking; have tiny flutters of anxiety hitting my tummy and just an overall sense of feeling very alone and think I know why, but there is not a great deal I can do about it and wonder if any of you feel similar?
I used to be obsessed with Anne of Green Gables and thus, got all the books and that went on to the tv production, because of curiosity with seeing things in action that I read about, but inevitably, I am always disappointed because they insisted on changing things!
Well, it has been some years since this obsession but recently, my husband suggested us watching Anne of Green Gables and at first, I was not keen, for that is how my obsessions go, I get bored and really don't want anything to do with them after the pattern has been changed, but I did watch and suddenly felt the need to watch more but the original ( as I remember the series from childhood) but there is another series of adaptions that put her in war scenes and I just hate that and it is nothing to do with books, so in my "obsessed" state, I am hunting avidly online for the original series and although find them, have trouble downloading and even had to restart my laptop to an earlier time. I then found it on ebay and whoa did something I NEVER do! I paid just over £17 with postage and packaging free; pretty soon, I start to regret HEAVILY and so planned on returning the dvd, so that I can recoup my money. The trouble is that the only source of "income" I have is via a credit card and my husband refuses point blank to put any money in there; he has on occasions shown a loving spirit and topped my card up but I cannot pay back straight away. So basically, I went to order some cross stitch silks, for a project that I wish to do for a close friend, but horror, found that I do not have any money in my account, due to this stupid purchase and if I am honest, it feels just AWFUL to not have a penny to my name, despite being at home; I feel trapped and hence this disquieting feeling, as hubby won't be back til late this evening!
Oh and I live in a different country, which I have never reconciled myself too with absolute certainty; it is a case of coping because I have no choice. I can speak French to a certain point, but feel so "childlike" vulnerable and so, there is just currently no chance of braving it and finding a little job.
I am planning on working towards getting a car that one does not need a license and I just feel in my heart, it will give me a boost of confidence to go out on my own.
I am sincerely hoping that I can send this dvd back and recover my money, for as strange as it is, I feel comforted knowing I have a bit of money on my credit card.
I used to be obsessed with Anne of Green Gables and thus, got all the books and that went on to the tv production, because of curiosity with seeing things in action that I read about, but inevitably, I am always disappointed because they insisted on changing things!
Well, it has been some years since this obsession but recently, my husband suggested us watching Anne of Green Gables and at first, I was not keen, for that is how my obsessions go, I get bored and really don't want anything to do with them after the pattern has been changed, but I did watch and suddenly felt the need to watch more but the original ( as I remember the series from childhood) but there is another series of adaptions that put her in war scenes and I just hate that and it is nothing to do with books, so in my "obsessed" state, I am hunting avidly online for the original series and although find them, have trouble downloading and even had to restart my laptop to an earlier time. I then found it on ebay and whoa did something I NEVER do! I paid just over £17 with postage and packaging free; pretty soon, I start to regret HEAVILY and so planned on returning the dvd, so that I can recoup my money. The trouble is that the only source of "income" I have is via a credit card and my husband refuses point blank to put any money in there; he has on occasions shown a loving spirit and topped my card up but I cannot pay back straight away. So basically, I went to order some cross stitch silks, for a project that I wish to do for a close friend, but horror, found that I do not have any money in my account, due to this stupid purchase and if I am honest, it feels just AWFUL to not have a penny to my name, despite being at home; I feel trapped and hence this disquieting feeling, as hubby won't be back til late this evening!
Oh and I live in a different country, which I have never reconciled myself too with absolute certainty; it is a case of coping because I have no choice. I can speak French to a certain point, but feel so "childlike" vulnerable and so, there is just currently no chance of braving it and finding a little job.
I am planning on working towards getting a car that one does not need a license and I just feel in my heart, it will give me a boost of confidence to go out on my own.
I am sincerely hoping that I can send this dvd back and recover my money, for as strange as it is, I feel comforted knowing I have a bit of money on my credit card.