My Estranged Aspie Friend

[camerartus]

About 9 months ago my Aspie friend and I had a major following out. The result being that she blocked me on Facebook and her phone. Recently, after a long hiatus, I got back on Facebook. A little over a week ago, I saw signs that she had temporarily un-blocked me, but made no contact, then re-blocked me. About a month before that, a mutual fellow Aspie friend of ours told me it was obvious she felt guilty about things. Can any of you share your insights, or, at least, your hunches on what might be going on?
We have many mutual friends, and may soon be in the same room together. Advice? Suggestions?

 

[camerartus]

No responses?

 

[camerartus]

I guess I posted in the wrong place?

 

[Astroganga]

Couldn't you get your mutual friend to pass on the message that all is forgiven from your side (presuming it is...?), it seems your aspie friend may think she went to far wants to make amends but isn't sure how

 

[camerartus]

My thoughts exactly. I've suggested that but, her friends really don't get that. And yet, that was something I was often able to help her with as a friend.
That also makes this all the more frustrating.
Thanks so much for replying.

 

[Southern Discomfort]

It might be possible that she's been rethinking the situation leading up to this and has thought of other perspectives of it. I do that a few times.

 

[Ste11aeres]

I guess I posted in the wrong place?

I'm going to move this to the Friends & Family section, actually.

 

[camerartus]

I'm going to move this to the Friends & Family section, actually.

Thank you so much for doing that.

 

[camerartus]

She was angry or sad or confused and blocked communication with you. Then, rethought it, and unblocked you in hope that you would apologize or that some dialogue would happen. Then when she didn't get an apology or some sort of explanation right away she re-blocked you. She's still angry or confused or upset.

Yeah, probably more confused than anything. I didn't even know she had been available until after the fact. Thanks for the input.

 

[camerartus]

I have since heard that she changed medications and psychiatrist, but had since had a falling out with her sister and brother-in-law after they told her their concern that she was becoming too fatalistic. This really concerns me because her sister and her spouse and kids have always had a calming effect on her life. I also think the change in meds and therapist wasn't good for her, either.