Dr. Smart
Well-Known Member
Nt friend: i notice you have this particular trait you should not have.
Me: yeah I'm aware of it, I have taken steps over the years to get better in regards to that trait, i don't let it affect other people negatively and i've actually found a way to make certain aspects of it a positive for me.
Nt: I don't have that trait it's a bad trait, you shouldn't have it.
Me: well like i said i've worked on it but i think i have other things im more concerned with improving right now. I'm not hurting anyone and i only show this trait around you because you are a good friend i trust. Plus you used to have a similar trait.
Nt: I don't have that trait anymore, and it's really easy just make this change to your everyday routine. It works for me so it must work for you. You really need to learn this kind of thing. You should have learned it already.
Me: i'm not that good at changing my routine and this doesent feel like it's a priority to me. I feel like you are being judgmental though, your kind of upsetting me.
Nt: oh i see, you can't take criticism.
Me: what? No, you've know me for years. I don't always agree with criticism but i'll listen. I just don't like how you come across with it. It feels condescending
Nt: can't help it, i'm blunt. I've always been blunt that's just the way i am. Can't change me!
Me: yeah I'm aware of it, I have taken steps over the years to get better in regards to that trait, i don't let it affect other people negatively and i've actually found a way to make certain aspects of it a positive for me.
Nt: I don't have that trait it's a bad trait, you shouldn't have it.
Me: well like i said i've worked on it but i think i have other things im more concerned with improving right now. I'm not hurting anyone and i only show this trait around you because you are a good friend i trust. Plus you used to have a similar trait.
Nt: I don't have that trait anymore, and it's really easy just make this change to your everyday routine. It works for me so it must work for you. You really need to learn this kind of thing. You should have learned it already.
Me: i'm not that good at changing my routine and this doesent feel like it's a priority to me. I feel like you are being judgmental though, your kind of upsetting me.
Nt: oh i see, you can't take criticism.
Me: what? No, you've know me for years. I don't always agree with criticism but i'll listen. I just don't like how you come across with it. It feels condescending
Nt: can't help it, i'm blunt. I've always been blunt that's just the way i am. Can't change me!