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Lou Laurinen (formerly known as Luca) - its her wedding day on Sunday

Thank you for the well-wishes, everyone!! And yes, it is tomorrow, haha!
I could not have found a better match. We bring out the best in each other, and we are each other's biggest fan. We're happy together whether we're simply sitting in the same room, or going on a big adventure.
Looking forward to spending the rest of my life with my soul mate. ❤️
 
Well, since you've seen this thread already, Lou' - I am thrilled to witness the countdown to your wedding day and I wish you and Pekka a bright, happy and warm future together.

You are a great couple! 💕
 
This song is for Pekka.

Our house is a very,
very, very fine house

With two cats in the yard

Life used to be so hard

Now everything is easy
'cause of you


 
Thank you for the well-wishes, everyone!! And yes, it is tomorrow, haha!
I could not have found a better match. We bring out the best in each other, and we are each other's biggest fan. We're happy together whether we're simply sitting in the same room, or going on a big adventure.
Looking forward to spending the rest of my life with my soul mate. ❤️

Congratulations to the both of you! Wishing you all the best. :)
 
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Absolutely wonderful! Best of wishes to you two.
Thank you for the well-wishes, everyone!! And yes, it is tomorrow, haha!
I could not have found a better match. We bring out the best in each other, and we are each other's biggest fan. We're happy together whether we're simply sitting in the same room, or going on a big adventure.
Looking forward to spending the rest of my life with my soul mate. ❤️
I have learned that during the decade of my existential loneliness, I had to develop good, deep, values just to protect myself. Then, suddenly I was able to meet a perceptive woman who saw and accepted me. It was an inflection point and 47 years later we still have adventures together. I have lived how you feel and am happy for you.
 
Absolutely wonderful! Best of wishes to you two.

I have learned that during the decade of my existential loneliness, I had to develop good, deep, values just to protect myself. Then, suddenly I was able to meet a perceptive woman who saw and accepted me. It was an inflection point and 47 years later we still have adventures together. I have lived how you feel and am happy for you.
So glad you found your happiness, and glad I have too :)
 
Enjoying our very last day as an unmarried couple :)
Don’t let the snow fool you, it’s quite warm out.

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Amazing , 2 Aspies found Each other , What "ARE" the odds ? Imagine a lovely and beautiful life with One and another . It is Soo lovely that you have found each other as Life mates .
May you face all of lifes distresses and equally beautiful offerings with each other and learn and Adapt together . With Great resolve And "adaptability". For at this point in time in society.The two of you being bonded with each other. It Is truley a Rare and Great thing.
May you both be "blessed"all your days And Never forget the feelings and thoughts, that brought you together .❤️
 
Amazing , 2 Aspies found Each other , What "ARE" the odds ? Imagine a lovely and beautiful life with One and another . It is Soo lovely that you have found each other as Life mates .
May you face all of lifes distresses and equally beautiful offerings with each other and learn and Adapt together . With Great resolve And "adaptability". For at this point in time in society.The two of you being bonded with each other. It Is truley a Rare and Great thing.
May you both be "blessed"all your days And Never forget the feelings and thoughts, that brought you together .❤️
Aww thank you, this is so sweet and means so much to us ❤️ You are so kind!
 

"Ever since you met me / Keys to the Bentley / Now they call you the preacher's wife!"

Also the "rock that'll break your arm". Really cool nontraditional wedding song.
 
Good luck on one of the most important days of your life, wishing you much joy, love and understanding! Remember that noone is perfect, and the happiness is easier to be found in the little things (like him fixing you that basket, you choosing where to put black colored frame in your cozy house, him finally learning to not give treats tp the dog etc) :)

It's such a precious feeling to know that this day commemorates your love in a special way, and while nothing will change i how you live and behave, the memory of the wedding will warm your hearts years and years after.

Cherish each other, support each other and remember how lucky you are to find the one in this huge, often hard world.

Wishing you all the best and waiting for photos ;) <3
 

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