Just found this thread.
I am a 47 yr old FNT who has been dating a 53 yr man with Asperger's. Recently he ended the relationship after almost 3 years. He said he just no longer sees me as the G/F.
We live together, and I have now moved into another room. We have been apart a little over a month.
He still wants to do things for me and take care of me, but says it is only platonic. We had some conflict last year due to some health issues I had and my feelings of insecurity.
I love him very much and would like to work this out. I am trying to better understand Asperger's and also get some help for my issues as well. I am wondering if there is any hope he will change his mind. He has said once he changes it he never seems to go back.
He has done this sort of thing before in previous relationships from what I've been told. He just gives up and moves on to the next g/f only to repeat the same pattern. I would like to be the person that can break that pattern.
He has said he is willing to cuddle platonically and do what he can too take care of me within his limits.
Any advice?
I am a 47 yr old FNT who has been dating a 53 yr man with Asperger's. Recently he ended the relationship after almost 3 years. He said he just no longer sees me as the G/F.
We live together, and I have now moved into another room. We have been apart a little over a month.
He still wants to do things for me and take care of me, but says it is only platonic. We had some conflict last year due to some health issues I had and my feelings of insecurity.
I love him very much and would like to work this out. I am trying to better understand Asperger's and also get some help for my issues as well. I am wondering if there is any hope he will change his mind. He has said once he changes it he never seems to go back.
He has done this sort of thing before in previous relationships from what I've been told. He just gives up and moves on to the next g/f only to repeat the same pattern. I would like to be the person that can break that pattern.
He has said he is willing to cuddle platonically and do what he can too take care of me within his limits.
Any advice?