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Kissing

tapian said:
I wanted to know if there are any NT's dating Aspies on here who have confronted the problem of awkward kisses from your Aspie partner. Mine kisses me very mechanically almost as if he is trying too hard to convince me that he is into it. My previous bf was an extremely passionate kisser which adds to the frustration of this new hollow feeling at the moment when you want heartfelt passion the most. I don't want to hurt his feelings and try "training" him to kiss me. Then it would be even more fake. I guess it's just something I need to deal with.
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I haven’t kissed anyone for a while
 
Some people like sharing tongues. I personally enjoy tongue in my mouth and vice versa. Slobbering doesn't bug me if we're both sharing each others saliva. I think it's a great feeling and fun. Definitely try to feel the other person out and don't try to force your mouth on them. You can always try to remember to ask about this before you start actually kissing, because everyone is different. I wouldn't ask when a kiss is about to happen if you can help it.
 
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