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It's a GREAT time to be alive

Matthias

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I was inspired by a speech I heard last night about all the great things happening in the world and wanted to share.

Here's what I've witnessed in the past year:

Women's rights are being restored
Children are being protected from schools and doctors that seek to harm them
Criminals are being held accountable for their crimes
Rampant fraud, covered up by racists due to the skin color of the fraudsters, is being exposed and eliminated
Murder rate has plunged to a 125 year low after the rule of law was enforced against violent criminal trespassers
Science is triumphing over ideology
Love is winning against hate

Note: This post is about sharing good news. Please don't make it political.
 
There's also a marked lack of H Bombs currently falling.

We haven't experienced a second Carrington Event.

No stars have gone nova close enough to fry us with gamma radiation.

The Yellowstone super volcano has not erupted.

So yeah, things could be MUCH worse, and it's a good time to be alive.
 
People are proving that they are decent despite the worst estimations--they are putting themselves in front of pepper spray and tear gas, putting their bodies and their minds on the line to push back against what's happening, old people pushed on the ground, young people risking their futures to protest, putting their very lives on the line, sleeping out in the elements at 10 below, standing on basically the firing lines to say no, and at points giving it all up in order to get the message across. As shameful as my culture is, people do step up in ways that genuinely restore my belief in human history past and present.
 
There's also a marked lack of H Bombs currently falling.

We haven't experienced a second Carrington Event.

No stars have gone nova close enough to fry us with gamma radiation.

The Yellowstone super volcano has not erupted.

So yeah, things could be MUCH worse, and it's a good time to be alive.
It's always good to be grateful that bad things aren't happening where you live. Thanks for sharing!
 
People are proving that they are decent despite the worst estimations--they are putting themselves in front of pepper spray and tear gas, putting their bodies and their minds on the line to push back against what's happening, old people pushed on the ground, young people risking their futures to protest, putting their very lives on the line, sleeping out in the elements at 10 below, standing on basically the firing lines to say no, and at points giving it all up in order to get the message across. As shameful as my culture is, people do step up in ways that genuinely restore my belief in human history past and present.
That all sounds honorable if they're protesting some great evil. Thankfully, nothing like that is happening in my country but I've about heard the situation you've described in Cuba so perhaps that's where you're writing from. If that's the case, I hope you can get to a free country nearby (if you desire it) where you'll be welcomed and granted asylum.
 
I’m massively enjoying my rabbit hole of playing my different basses. The look, the feel, the weight. the feel of the thick strings on my fingers. Then there is the sound. Great time to be alive. I have time for music
 
Please don't make it political.

But it already is, very clearly, right from the opening post, I'd say. It actually took me a moment to catch it, but it's from the very first sentence, I think.

Surely I dont have to explain... right?

Did I ever mention I'm from the US? Not sure why it's occurring to me to mention that now, but hey, there it is. South of Chicago, actually.


Aaaaaaaaaaaaaanyway.


Good things, let's see, good things... well... seeing people band together to protect others from roaming gangs of masked clowns who go around kidnapping people based on skin color (or just for any reason at all) has been very inspiring. Particularly over in Minnesota. I know I wouldnt last 5 bloody seconds there. But the amazing people who live there just refuse to back down even against the threat of getting tear-gassed by """"agents"""" or even just outright shot. Or other horrid things. They risk all of that just to protect each other and stand up for innocent people.

Usually, I have a super low view of the general public. Comes from my school days, plus my work days (where I mostly dealt with the public in stores and such). "most people are jerks" has been my view for... always, really. Always. The internet being the internet has also made me more cynical too.

But maybe... just maybe... not everyone out there is a bully or a total jerk. Or like, a T-100 in a trenchcoat or something. Maybe some people really do care about not just themselves, but even people they've never met before. Even if those people are very different from them.

Seeing evidence of that is inspiring. Even causing some of my depression to crack more.


As shameful as my culture is, people do step up in ways that genuinely restore my belief in human history past and present.

Yeah, pretty much how I'm feeling lately too.

Pride in people I've never even met... That's a new one for me.
 
But it already is, very clearly, right from the opening post, I'd say. It actually took me a moment to catch it, but it's from the very first sentence, I think.

Surely I dont have to explain... right?
I didn't mention a specific country or any specific details because I wanted to keep it non-political. I wanted a positivity thread where people can share the good things that have been happening around them.

Good things, let's see, good things... well... seeing people band together to protect others from roaming gangs of masked clowns who go around kidnapping people based on skin color (or just for any reason at all) has been very inspiring. Particularly over in Minnesota. I know I wouldnt last 5 bloody seconds there. But the amazing people who live there just refuse to back down even against the threat of getting tear-gassed by """"agents"""" or even just outright shot. Or other horrid things. They risk all of that just to protect each other and stand up for innocent people.
No one in my country is shot or tear gassed unless they (or a group they're a part of) violently assault or interfere with law enforcement carrying out their lawful duties. If you try to murder law enforcement by running them over with your car or using a gun to resist arrest in any country, you're probably going to get shot. I am grateful for the brave men and women who stand up and work hard to keep my country safe from criminals who rape and kill innocent citizens and legal immigrants. I admire their courage, knowing it can't be easy dealing with violent agitators who continually harass and assault them. Enforcing our laws saves thousands of lives and that's always a good thing.

Usually, I have a super low view of the general public. Comes from my school days, plus my work days (where I mostly dealt with the public in stores and such). "most people are jerks" has been my view for... always, really. Always. The internet being the internet has also made me more cynical too.

But maybe... just maybe... not everyone out there is a bully or a total jerk. Or like, a T-100 in a trenchcoat or something. Maybe some people really do care about not just themselves, but even people they've never met before. Even if those people are very different from them.

Seeing evidence of that is inspiring. Even causing some of my depression to crack more.




Yeah, pretty much how I'm feeling lately too.

Pride in people I've never even met... That's a new one for me.
I think your negativity bias made you susceptible to believing propaganda meant to divide people by fomenting hate to trigger you to demonize good people who are doing what is best for your country. I encourage you to talk to people who disagree with you, see why they believe as they do, and try to see the good in others. If you embrace love instead of hate, I think you'll feel better and start to enjoy your life.
 
I didn't mention a specific country or any specific details because I wanted to keep it non-political. I wanted a positivity thread where people can share the good things that have been happening around them.

I can appreciate this as a basic concept, and indeed it's something that should appear more often, seriously.

And while I like positive posts... what I dont like is anything that appears to be disguised as one. Or, to be likely more accurate in this case, one that genuinely is a positive post... but with some extra hidden wobbly bits stuck on with intent that is less obvious. I'm not one to hold back, so... I responded. I recognize that I can be a bit irritating with that, but I can never seem to stop myself.

No one in my country is shot or tear gassed unless they (or a group they're a part of) violently assault or interfere with law enforcement carrying out their lawful duties. If you try to murder law enforcement by running them over with your car or using a gun to resist arrest in any country, you're probably going to get shot.

Proper law enforcement is trained to DE-ESCALATE, sir. The use of lethal weapons is a last resort... not to be used against someone who is already sitting on the ground. Even gas weapons arent to be used lightly; they ARE genuinely dangerous and can end up with someone dead, people seem to forget that. No proper cop or FBI agent would pull any of that so quickly and casually. Even if that person has a gun; there's a reason why proper cops dont just fire merely because the suspect HAS a gun; they'll act only when action is taken with that gun.

The ones you are talking about... they are also on record, on camera, displaying behavior that would be considered *extremely* problematic in a proper law enforcement agency. Like seriously, that kind of behavior isnt just the sort that puts civilians at risk. It would be considered a risk to the team as well. It's a VERY fast way to get a partner killed. That's one of the reasons de-escalation is so important. No law enforcement agency... or at least, none that are up to task and worth their salt... would allow that kind of nonsense to slide. But THEY do. It is a constant danger to everyone involved. I seriously keep expecting one of these idiots to end up getting killed not by angry protestors, but by some trigger-happy doofus on their own side who cant even bother to aim correctly and got overly excited.

There's a LOT more I could say about this... like seriously a whole lot more... but that'd take forever. I can say with confidence though: the way these guys operate is VERY close to what would be more appropriate for a bunch of criminal hitmen. Fast in, fast out, collateral damage. Every situation approached that way. Or even just basic low-level thugs. Just roaming, specifically looking for trouble, ready to start a fight, heck, WANTING to start a fight. Lots of intimidation tactics, and using torment and volume to scare others.


I think your negativity bias made you susceptible to believing propaganda meant to divide people by fomenting hate to trigger you to demonize good people who are doing what is best for your country. I encourage you to talk to people who disagree with you, see why they believe as they do, and try to see the good in others. If you embrace love instead of hate, I think you'll feel better and start to enjoy your life.

Nah, it's not that.

My immediate family has what I usually refer to as an extremely "corporate" background. This is why I'm able to lead the lifestyle that I do, and why I have the kind of resources that I do.

But this also means that I've had a LOT of teaching in learning how to spot things, and see through people's... er... okay this forum doesnt like swearing, so I'll use the word "cow-poo" here. That sounds silly but you likely see what word I mean. I'm taught how to see through that kind of trickery, and how to work around and deal with it, because that kind of knowledge is required to succeed in the corporate world, at the level the family worked at.

And one lesson that has been drilled into me is simple: Never... trust... those in charge. Never. It's not a matter of propaganda. It's seriously how the corporate world works, and government is pretty much that, but dialed up more. Even if I were to vote for someone, for instance, I STILL would not trust them. To do so would go against everything I've been taught, it's not good business practice. It's not a matter of not spotting the good in people. I'm just aware of the kind of cow-poo people pull when in positions of control, and why they do so. PARTICULARLY at really, REALLY high levels. You dont become a billionaire or an ultra high-level CEO by being a nice guy who wants to save puppies and cure cancer. I'm not sure why people are so inclined to disbelieve that fact, but a fact it remains.


Look, I know my name is Misery, but I aint nearly so negative as I might sound at times. If I sound that way a bit too often or a bit too intensely, I apologize. I grew up reading unending piles of Garfield comics and I'm a natural mimic who spent her formative years getting bullied a lot (while reading more Garfield). Sounding spiky, sarcastic, and irritable is my normal state. Sometimes I say uppity things. That line about having a low view of the general public in particular that I used earlier... old habit, that one. I tend to spit that one out when feeling particularly irritable. Bloody dumb line though. Gotta stop that. Someone please smack me the next time I do that. Well, like, a digital smack, anyway. I apologize for that one.

In reality though, when I'm not all amped up, I always try to spot the love and care. What's that line from that one show... uhh... "if you look for the light, you can often find it. But if you look only for the dark, that is all you will ever see". Pretty sure I've repeated that line on this forum every now and then.

The positive thing that I personally can add to this thread, in that original spirit, is that there is love EVERYWHERE. Brilliant people and bright stars. So much more than people realize. What I said about the people in that city being inspiring, I wasnt just saying that to be irksome. I really meant it. That kind of inspiring behavior can be seen in so many places. Not often at that level of intensity. But even the smallest acts of kindness are a display of love, and that adds up.

That's all I'm going to say though, I think I've made the points I wanted to and I'm a bit overloaded. I've had a bit too much communication in the last day or two.
 
But it already is, very clearly, right from the opening post, I'd say. It actually took me a moment to catch it, but it's from the very first sentence, I think.

Surely I dont have to explain... right?

Did I ever mention I'm from the US? Not sure why it's occurring to me to mention that now, but hey, there it is. South of Chicago, actually.


Aaaaaaaaaaaaaanyway.


Good things, let's see, good things... well... seeing people band together to protect others from roaming gangs of masked clowns who go around kidnapping people based on skin color (or just for any reason at all) has been very inspiring. Particularly over in Minnesota. I know I wouldnt last 5 bloody seconds there. But the amazing people who live there just refuse to back down even against the threat of getting tear-gassed by """"agents"""" or even just outright shot. Or other horrid things. They risk all of that just to protect each other and stand up for innocent people.

Usually, I have a super low view of the general public. Comes from my school days, plus my work days (where I mostly dealt with the public in stores and such). "most people are jerks" has been my view for... always, really. Always. The internet being the internet has also made me more cynical too.

But maybe... just maybe... not everyone out there is a bully or a total jerk. Or like, a T-100 in a trenchcoat or something. Maybe some people really do care about not just themselves, but even people they've never met before. Even if those people are very different from them.

Seeing evidence of that is inspiring. Even causing some of my depression to crack more.




Yeah, pretty much how I'm feeling lately too.

Pride in people I've never even met... That's a new one for me.

Well said. Thank you.
 

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