Yes, as graphics improved, games got more and more realistic and gritty, and suddenly, they were no longer entertaining or FUN. Yet, so many gamers grew up with this they think this is the way it is supposed to be. Bring back games that are entertaining and fun.
About the only game I play any more is Minecraft. I think I may have more games for my old Commodore 64 than for modern PC.
I think this is another idea that tends to draw a lot of people towards buying more and more upgrades, is the idea that those sorts of games are the only ones.
I dont like any of that gritty realism either. I mean, if I want something to look super realistic... I'll just go for a drive or something. Look, realism, all over the place, how pretty. But I never found that it added much to games other than a selling point or an excuse to get the next graphics card (that the game in question does not, actually, need at all). It also adds to the sunk cost fallacy, but that's a whole other topic.
The thing that I always wish I could get more people to do is to step outside of their comfort zones and such. But also, to put in the effort to browse. I think Minecraft in particular shows that a game doesnt have to be a typical AAA blockbuster with hyper-graphics to be awesome, but the real reason why many people find it as the exception is because, like AAA games, it comes screaming at you. You cant not notice that it's there. But for the vast majority of games, this is not true. AAA games make up only a tiny percentage of what's out there (and I mean in terms of modern games, not retro). Seriously, a TINY percentage. Darn near microscopic. But all of those other games require that someone go and actually browse around on their own. Like how we used to do, way back when. You had to go to the store and even if you knew that a particular big game (maybe Zelda, or Mario, or whatever) existed, you still had to roam the shelves. We tended to have bigger collections of games back then, because we were sorta forced to look at other ones. Sometimes you went to the store not having a clue what was out at all, because the internet wasnt there.
Generally as a rule, I really dont like most AAA games. I dont like the FPS genre whatsoever, and playing a game that follows the Ubisoft Formula (open world, stupid towers, 5 million icons on an unnecessarily large world map, more stupid towers) sounds like a form of overpriced torture to me. I like shmups, I like platformers, I like retro-inspired games, I like strategy games (turn-based, mostly), and so on. And anything roguelike-ish. A lot of genres that are supposedly dead, if you listen to anyone who only plays mainstream games. But no, all of these have been thriving for quite awhile. Game creation tools have gotten so usable that a game could be made by just ONE person and be amazing, you dont *need* a big team anymore. Even I have game-dev experience (as part of a team of... 10, I think). One full game, some number of expansions, I dont know why I cant remember the bloody number.
Minecraft is a GREAT example of the type of creativity and quality that can come out of something made by someone who is outside of the big publisher landscape (and I dont just mean modern Minecraft, it was just as great in its early versions too; I got started right before they invented chickens). But finding more like that means getting out of the comfort zone.
The nice part is, as a side effect, you find stuff that does not cost 5 bazillion dollars to buy. I personally consider $30 to be expensive, due to the price range I've gotten used to. If something costs $30 at base price, holy heck, it better be AMAZING. That's pretty rare though, with the stuff I play. Most tend to cost about 10 to 15. Though a Steam sale can take something that costs 30 and drop it down to like, I dunno, 5.
But yeah, I do think people get stuck in that comfortable loop, even if that loop then ends up with them spending silly amounts of money on all this bloated hardware and games that cost like $70 yet are so buggy they barely work right out of the gate.
Though I also do agree that retro games are good too. Recently I finally got the PS2 emulator to work correctly. Havent been able to play those in who knows how long. And I've got stuff like the whole NES/SNES library and who knows how much stuff in the MAME archive. Takes up so much space though.