I'm Still Not Over Her. Any Advice?

[KwiSpen]

Since I've last been here, I've gotten in and out of a relationship. We broke up about a month and a half ago, and I'm still not over her. It wasn't a very clean break and I never got a straight answer from her. Since then, I've tried to get back into the dating game, but I don't feel the enthusiasm I once had with it.

Today, I saw her. We were at the same convention. I didn't expect to see her since she didn't respond to the Facebook event. She showed up, and I felt myself falling to pieces. A buddy talked me off the ledge and calmed me down. I stayed relatively calm and tried to keep my head down around her. At the same time, I had these unresolved feelings, and a need to end on a high note: a more amiable note. As we were about to leave, I tried to strike up a conversation. After a quick hello, she sprinted away like Usain Bolt at the 100m. I guess I shouldn't have tried to smooth things over. Now, I'm hurt even more and feel again like I'll never find love. Any words of advice, fellow aspies?

 

[midlife aspie]

Of course you feel like you will never find love. You WILL though, if you keep trying. This too shall pass. Think of it like going fishing and being able to keep one fish. Some you want to keep will get away and some will want to stay that you will want to toss back into the sea. You're young and they are young also. Take your time, as you have plenty. Laugh and live!

 

[Mia]

Well Kwispen if you have already been in a relationship with someone, seems to me that it won't be the only one. People have relationships at least I did, to try and figure out what kind of person they get along with best. Its all a learning experience, each person that you encounter, helps you along the way to decide which person best suits you.