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Identifying your own Aspergic behaviour in social interaction

CloudRomy

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Do you think it is possible to identify Aspergic behaviour (particularly in the area of social communication) in others and not notice it in yourself? Do emotions get in the way?
 
I hadn't been aware I sometimes talked a lot about my favourite subjects or that I often failed to ask 'how are you?' in return; a friend pointed this out to me. I can observe it in others though.
 
Like Forest Gump crashing a MENSA meeting, I tend to feel out of place with my behavior after each disastrous thing I say/do. GAAH!! *facepalm* :rolleyes:
 
I can notice aspie behavior in coworkers easily yet with myself, i'm slow to notice it. If i notice my own aspie behavior at all, its after the fact and i do a mental facepalm every single time.
 
When I take care of a problem for a customer, they often ask what was wrong. I am more than happy talk about what I'm interested in. So I start explaining what was wrong in technical terms, until I realize that they do not care and are uncomfortable. Some times it takes a while for me to see it. If someone were to do the same thing to me I would see it right away. So, yes I do see Aspie behavior in others, but miss it when I'm doing it.
 

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