I am who I am

[AdamG]

Some people reading this know me. Most do not. So I'm less than a month into my realization of my autism. And I've always been myself. I've never cared what people thought (unless they were close to me). I've always been sensitive in all my sensory organs (including brain). Very empathic (sensory organ). Had to figure out social situations constantly. Learned how to do proper eye contact (no longer though). And the biggest thing I've learned?
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For me, this is the big one. I forgive myself for all of the times I thought I was sick or wrong. And I forgive all the people who told me so, whether they believed it or not.
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I am who I am, and I have been arrogant with my strengths (which is a mistake) and I have tried throwing myself into a brick wall over my limitations.
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This was never necessary. All I ever needed to understand, is that I am who I am.
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And that is perfectly ok.

 

[VictorR]

One of the great things about self-acceptance is that it allows us to be more genuine, and quite often, being real and true to oneself is a great way of building connections with others - there are a number of people whom I may not agree with on things, but for whom I respect because I know that their actions and words come from the heart.