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[pumpkin]

Hi everyone,
I'm an NT female who's gotten very close with an AS (undiagnosed) guy, and I've come here to better understand him and his actions. He's recently withdrawn from me and I'm really struggling with it at the moment - but reading these forums has already helped me in a lot of ways.

I don't know if I'll post my story (I tend to be a silent observer) as I don't want to burden anyone with my problems, but if anyone would particularly like to offer me words of advice then please feel free to reach out

Thanks for having me!

 

[Fridgemagnetman]

as I don't want to burden anyone with my problems, but if anyone would particularly like to offer me words of advice then please feel free to reach out

My advice to you is to 'burden' us with your problems.

You may hear things you don't like but also, very likely, you'll hear something useful.

Sharing will give you the most benefit.

 

[pumpkin]

My advice to you is to 'burden' us with your problems.

You may hear things you don't like but also, very likely, you'll hear something useful.

Sharing will give you the most benefit.

Thanks @Fridgemagnetman, you're right. I sometimes get anxious about really unlikely things, like that he might see it if I post about it publicly haha. I might do a post in the love forum just about a subset of my questions.

 

[Otenba]

Definitely agree. "A problem shared is a problem halved". I hope you get some helpful responses, pumpkin. Welcome to the forum too! You've got a great username!

 

[pumpkin]

Definitely agree. "A problem shared is a problem halved". I hope you get some helpful responses, pumpkin. Welcome to the forum too! You've got a great username!

Thanks @Otenba I wanted to stay anonymous so I couldn't go with any of my usual usernames and it was literally the first thing that came to my head (my brain works in mysterious ways haha).

Welcome to you too! I saw you're also new.

 

[Otenba]

Thanks @Otenba I wanted to stay anonymous so I couldn't go with any of my usual usernames and it was literally the first thing that came to my head (my brain works in mysterious ways haha).

Welcome to you too! I saw you're also new.

I understand. Thank you, hehe!!

 

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[Major Tom]

Hi pumpkin welcome to AC. I enjoyed chatting with you last night!

 

[George Newman]

Hi everyone,
I'm an NT female who's gotten very close with an AS (undiagnosed) guy, and I've come here to better understand him and his actions. He's recently withdrawn from me and I'm really struggling with it at the moment - but reading these forums has already helped me in a lot of ways.

I don't know if I'll post my story (I tend to be a silent observer) as I don't want to burden anyone with my problems, but if anyone would particularly like to offer me words of advice then please feel free to reach out

Thanks for having me!

Hi everyone,
I'm an NT female who's gotten very close with an AS (undiagnosed) guy, and I've come here to better understand him and his actions. He's recently withdrawn from me and I'm really struggling with it at the moment - but reading these forums has already helped me in a lot of ways.

I don't know if I'll post my story (I tend to be a silent observer) as I don't want to burden anyone with my problems, but if anyone would particularly like to offer me words of advice then please feel free to reach out

Thanks for having me!

I am thrilled you decided to be are part of the community. My dad used to say, “eat the meat and throw away the bones and most of it is bones.” I hope your time here is nourishing.

 

[Myway]

Hey pumpkin. Welcome.

 

[Thinx]

Hi pumpkin welcome I hope you enjoy it here. It sounds like you have had a tough time I'm sorry to hear that, and hope you will feel supported here and feel you can share ideas I bet we can learn from.