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Sharleen

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My son is 3 now, but I knew something was different since he was about 3 months old.

He hardly speaks and has a vocabulary of 18 month old(if that extensive even).He said his first words at 6 months and never said a word again.
He never responded to affection as my daughter did as is expected for different stages or miletones, but I put it down as a boy or personality trait. He is more affectionate now but only when asked to cuddle.
He got extremely frustrated since age 3 months, if he tried to handle toys or objects but his motor skills was not developed for grasping.
He suffered with severe dairy allergy that was only diagnosed at 18 months(well managed at this stage).
He is very aggressive with other kids at school and I have daily complaint from his teacher about hitting others for no apparent reason.
On the other hand he is far advanced within his class and already does work for grades higher to keep him occupied in class.
He has never cried once when dropped of at school waves goodbye without hassle unlike other kids in his class.
He has severe meltdowns if something is out of routine.

And then I read something about sugar intake and Autism two weeks ago and started cutting all sugar out of his diet completely and there has been massive improvement has other moms experienced the same?

I could only get an appointment with a paediatric neurologist to confirm suspected diagnosis at the end of Nov, so self managing at this stage but would appreciate all the guidance help and advise I can get please.
 
Welcome :)

I know I get real hyperactive on sugar. Try to keep the sugar levels down because of it, but every now and then I'll have some, and I'll be bouncing off the walls.

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Love, acceptance and guidance are the best things you can give him. Diet is of extreme importance. Processed foods and sugar are poisons and should be avoided. Other things like Gluten and dairy (which you have already eliminated) may also cause problems. Fruits (limited because of sugar), green vegetables, beans (important for toxin removal), and meats should comprise most of a good diet.
He may be lashing out in class due to sensory overload, or frustration over misunderstanding. If speech is a problem, signing is a good alternative. You could also ask him to draw things for clues or explanations. Like, What is bothering you, What do you want, or Draw your day at school.
If he has Aspergers, he is likely routine oriented, does not respond well to change, is highly sensitive to sensory overload like noise, touch, or general activity, may exhibit behaviors like spinning, rubbinghands, bouncing legs and shutting down as in not responding to anything.
This is just one persons opinion (who has Aspergers) but I hope it is helpful. Best of luck with your son.
 
Welcome aboard! Best wishes with the little guy.
 

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