Hey guys, it's great to join the community! I'm new here and I thought I'd ask for your opinion about the adhd/autism assessment that I've just had (I live in Stockholm and they mostly adhere to DSM5 here). I am a 35 year old man, never had a formal assessment before. They decided to assess me for both since I had a bunch of diagnoses from another country (incl adhd), but the psychiatrist here thought the symptoms pointed towards autism, not a personality disorder. Indeed, I've always had major social and mentalizing difficulties, even if all this has sufficiently improved over the years, avoid eye contact (but manage it satisfactorily when there is only 1-2 people I am talking to), got those "special interests", but the major problem has always been stereotypical movements and stimming, something that defines my life to a very significant extent.
Upon all the tests and interviews (incl my partner and mother) the assessor confirmed ADHD and ruled that I currently don't meet enough criteria for ASD (e.g. only eye contact issues against a relatively well developed ability to read cues isn't enough to meet A2, while insufficient dependence on routine and sensory specificities are too mild for B (and the special interests are much less expressed than they used to be). That said, he also told me that on the basis of my childhood investigation I should definitely have received a formal ASD diagnosis as a kid, but now things have sufficiently smoothed out and it's ADHD that impacts my life the most.
So I was thinking... It's not that I'm chasing a formal diagnosis (although I find the label helpful to bring things home and have a road map of what I can change and what I have to accept), and what he said to me privately (that I'm def on the subclinical part of the spectrum) provides a relieving and illuminating explanation on why I've been struggling on multiple fronts all my life (even aside from ADHD).
It's true that my support needs are quite low, I'm virtually autonomous, yet my partner is soon gone to work in another country, and I am afraid my life will quickly fall apart in without his structuring presence. So, I'm not that sure, maybe there is supportive infrastructure in place that I'm missing out on this way?
Do you think it's a justified decision (also in terms of making the support infrastructure more accessible to people whose needs are higher by excluding relatively mild cases like mine) to not formally diagnose ASD when the criteria have definitely been met in the past but one can make the case that I'm too well adapted, despite the prominent stimming issue and other specificities and anxieties they generate?
Thanks a lot for your thoughts!
Upon all the tests and interviews (incl my partner and mother) the assessor confirmed ADHD and ruled that I currently don't meet enough criteria for ASD (e.g. only eye contact issues against a relatively well developed ability to read cues isn't enough to meet A2, while insufficient dependence on routine and sensory specificities are too mild for B (and the special interests are much less expressed than they used to be). That said, he also told me that on the basis of my childhood investigation I should definitely have received a formal ASD diagnosis as a kid, but now things have sufficiently smoothed out and it's ADHD that impacts my life the most.
So I was thinking... It's not that I'm chasing a formal diagnosis (although I find the label helpful to bring things home and have a road map of what I can change and what I have to accept), and what he said to me privately (that I'm def on the subclinical part of the spectrum) provides a relieving and illuminating explanation on why I've been struggling on multiple fronts all my life (even aside from ADHD).
It's true that my support needs are quite low, I'm virtually autonomous, yet my partner is soon gone to work in another country, and I am afraid my life will quickly fall apart in without his structuring presence. So, I'm not that sure, maybe there is supportive infrastructure in place that I'm missing out on this way?
Do you think it's a justified decision (also in terms of making the support infrastructure more accessible to people whose needs are higher by excluding relatively mild cases like mine) to not formally diagnose ASD when the criteria have definitely been met in the past but one can make the case that I'm too well adapted, despite the prominent stimming issue and other specificities and anxieties they generate?
Thanks a lot for your thoughts!
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