Hello and welcome, Robin!
In my experience: If you think you have Autism, and you've done all your research, you probably have autism. Also, a quick question: Are you an old lady, or do you just like old ladies, or did you think it was an interesting username? I think that older people can be really cool.
I am an old lady. I usually don't like old ladies, but that's true for all ages and sexes not just old ladies. I try to embrace who I am including my age (which seems to be important in our society). I think younger people can be cool too, but it's more challenging for them.
