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Hello Schrodinger - I love your name. Schrodinger's Cat is a principle I always go by because I don't like making definitive agreements. I don't adapt well to change first of all, and I hate making agreements with people only to have it not happen at the scheduled moment. Cannot stand it when someone says "I forgot" or "I fell asleep" - and not because of the forgetting or falling asleep, but because it's been definitively agreed upon between the two of us to do something at the scheduled time and that brings up a lot of hurt and wondering if people just say their words as wind. Can't stand it - WHEN YOU SAY YOU'LL DO SOMETHING YOU BETTER, BETTER DO IT UNLESS THERE'S AN EMERGENCY!!!!!!! This is why I tell people to always plan things "Schrodinger's Cat", always bringing in doubt. It's gonna happen, but it's also NOT gonna happen. No need to look forward to it only to have that "falling down the abyss of despair" feeling later on. Just no. No need for all that extra stress, I'm already ruining my health by worrying and worrying and worrying about pretty much everything as is, all the freaking time.

My special interests right are the online card game of Hearthstone and construction sites; in the past I used to be ultra-obsessed with streetlights and sprinklers. They also double as temporary stress relievers.
 
Love it! If you type a post and no one reads it, does it exist?

Lots of special interests here including photography, quantum physics, face painting kids (don't worry, school fete, I'm a mum not a freak, actually scratch that, I'm probably both), neuroscience, cellular biology, astronomy, children's books, illustration and hacking. To name the recent ones....
 
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