Hi, everyone. I'm 45 and have Asperger's. I grew up in rural Illinois, unaware of my condition, and struggled with it for decades. In my mid-30s, my mother learned about the condition from a friend with a young autistic child and suggested I learn about it. For several years, I went undiagnosed due to lack of health insurance, but I finally got diagnosed a few years ago. I can't say it's helped anything, but good to know. It's also nice to stop getting sneers from people who are sick of self-diagnoses.
Since then, I've helped several friends realize their condition, though none of them have sought a diagnosis for fear of the stigma. Once I learned the symptoms, I've learned to spot the condition in both men and women with ease.
I may also have alexithymia or at least a mild version of it. There's no value in getting that diagnosed. And once again I'm without insurance, so it's definitely not worth paying for out of pocket. I'm curious to hear more from people with that related condition as well.
Since then, I've helped several friends realize their condition, though none of them have sought a diagnosis for fear of the stigma. Once I learned the symptoms, I've learned to spot the condition in both men and women with ease.
I may also have alexithymia or at least a mild version of it. There's no value in getting that diagnosed. And once again I'm without insurance, so it's definitely not worth paying for out of pocket. I'm curious to hear more from people with that related condition as well.