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Hello from Indiana

SallySlips

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Hello everyone!
My name is Kayla. I'm 26 and live in rural Indiana.

I'm so happy to have found this forum. I haven't been officially diagnosed, but my husband and I both believe I have Asperger's. I've been very different from everyone I know my entire life, but I never knew why. I happened to marry an incredibly social, outgoing man and as you can probably imagine this has resulted in some pretty intense arguments over my behavior. After one particularly bad fight, in which he pointed out some things about me that I had already had a feeling were different from normal, I decided to do some research and found a description of AS that basically summed up my entire life.

At this point I don't feel like I need to get officially diagnosed (money is sort of tight and I don't get much time off work), but since my husband is so socially uninhibited he is helping me develop the skills I never learned growing up. He doesn't understand everything though, and sometimes I just find it impossible to explain to him how my brain works so he thinks I'm just being a jerk. :P

I'm really excited to be able to talk to people with the same issues that I have. I have many problems I'd like to get past (or at least work on) and I think a little personal understanding may go a long way.
 
Hi Kayla! welcome to the forum! im new here too. i love it so far. :)

how long have you been married? I really hope I find a girlfriend someday :( i never had one.

i hope your hubby can be more patient and understanding with you and your AS.

Welcome and enjoy your stay! hope to hear from you soon.
 
Hello and welcome to AC :)

I was the same when I found out about aspergers. The light came on, and it all made sense. Hope you enjoy being here, it's a very good place to find others in the same boat!
 
Welcome, fellow hoosier! I'm 27 and live in Indianapolis. If you ever want to get hooked up with our local Adults on the Spectrum group let me know!
 
Thanks for the welcome everyone :)
Yoshi, I have been married since April 21st. Fortunately my husband is a very understanding guy and things have gotten a lot easier since we made this little realization. He knows I don't do the weird things I do on purpose now, and I think it's made our marriage even better.
 

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