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Had another run in with my (un)friendly local bully today.

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Poppy98

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She tried to intimidate me by rushing at me and putting her [chest] on mine and her lips on mine while she was screaming threats at me.

I appreciate whoever said something earlier. Idk if it was a joke, but I appreciated the phrasing and it made me laugh.
 
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Tired said:
I dont understand. Is some woman sexually harassing you by forcefully kissing you? What is she yelling?
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She was threatening me because I don't act as her servant. The chest contact was because she was rushing at me and probably thought I would step back or wanted to get me to push her off. Idk if I did or not.

I think she was just doing it to be threatening but she did not need to have her lips on mine. Ew!
(Edit to clarify: she was threatening bodily harm of extreme levels, death, etc.)
 
Poppy98 said:
She tried to intimidate me by rushing at me....
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I grew up in a rough neighbourhood where things often turned bad far faster than most people are able to think. To me that action would be considered a very real threat to life and my response would have been immediate and without thought or planning. My response would be exactly the same if a wild animal was attacking me - if you don't fight you lose. Eat or be eaten.

Poppy98 said:
I think she was just doing it to be threatening....
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No. Very bad judgement call. This person is a violent sociopath and the situation will never end by itself. She will escalate and escalate all the way up to and including murder unless stopped HARD.

In this instance I recommend you contact law enforcement. It'll take a few visits with you making statements for each visit, they'll treat it like a typical domestic violence case and there has to be a lot of information and complaining before they'll act.
 
Poppy98 said:
Because standing up to her won't do a thing anyway?
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The way you describe things doesn't sound at all like regular bullying, this is victimisation behind closed doors and a very different situation. When the threats start escalating they're working their way up to actual violence.

And in this case retaliation isn't going to work unless you can actually be the scariest monster in their entire universe.
 
velociraptor said:
That is considered sexual assault where I live. Do you have a bodycam? If not, I would suggest purchasing one.
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Or at least a discreet security camera, they're very cheap these days. And if it's in your own room and looking towards your door you're not breaking any privacy rules.
 
Sorry about this. She invaded your personal body space. l like the fact that you didn't respond back. She was trying to illicit a response from you which would have ended badly for you. You didn't respond. Is she trying to get you fired? Is this the employee at work or someone different? I have run into many people who try to harass me but l know to stay calm and ignore. I am a petite female, and many men like to intimidate smaller older women. Glad you can talk about it here with no judgment. Outdated has some good advice.
 
Then you could talk to the landlord, or whoever is in charge of the monthly lease, unless it's her, then it's an issue. You will have to think of something to throw her off, like laugh, tell her she is acting silly or immature. Tell her she seems upset. What's bothering her? Maybe Outdated has way better advice then this. l haven't encountered this before, but l know it can happen.
 
Aspychata said:
Then you could talk to the landlord, or whoever is in charge of the monthly lease, unless it's her, then it's an issue. You will have to think of something to throw her off, like laugh, tell her she is acting silly or immature. Tell her she seems upset. What's bothering her? Maybe Outdated has way better advice then this. l haven't encountered this before, but l know it can happen.
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I did talk to the landlord, but they're close and that is causing problems. She really didn't care, but we shall see.
 
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