killakev79
Well-Known Member
hey people I'm kev ... 32 yr old undiagnosed aspie from the land of aus ... one of the greatest obsessions/interests/dilemmas of my life is an existential one ... I did my time playing make-believe in the outside world, I did ok at it too, was well liked, got pretty good at wearing my 'I'm just like everyone else' mask ... then some intense stuff happened in my world and I found myself unable and unwilling to exist like that anymore ... for years I'd systematically identified and eradicated all my eccentricities to become a 'normal' person ... in the process stamping out intrinsic parts of who I am ... now I find myself stuck ... or lost ... like many things inside my mind I find there isn't a satisfactory word to describe it ... I find myself incapable of moving forward until I understand where it is I'm supposed to be heading ... it's like being handed a set of blueprints to a building without being taught how to read them ... and being expected to build it by myself ... no one else can help because the instructions are written in a different language.
I feel like I'm wandering around in uncharted territory and all I can see is trees ... if I could just reach higher ground I might be able to discern where I am so I could figure out where to go ...
anyone resonate with this?
any advice or ideas on how one figures out their purpose in a world that's blinded by its own illusions?
is it even necessary for me to live a life in that world? if I'm alone and happy in my own world is that such a bad thing?
I'd be really interested to hear how people have managed to get around their incompatabilities with the world we live in ...
I feel like I'm wandering around in uncharted territory and all I can see is trees ... if I could just reach higher ground I might be able to discern where I am so I could figure out where to go ...
anyone resonate with this?
any advice or ideas on how one figures out their purpose in a world that's blinded by its own illusions?
is it even necessary for me to live a life in that world? if I'm alone and happy in my own world is that such a bad thing?
I'd be really interested to hear how people have managed to get around their incompatabilities with the world we live in ...