Well I would agree that males, likely, struggle with empathy more. It's well documented and easy to believe. Through personal experience that goes beyond this one circumstance I can safely say I struggle with it more than most males. If I didn't care I certainly wouldn't be trying to find out just what empathy means to people or how people should react to the emotions of others. I think it's also safe to say that most males are not autistic. Part of my pathology is to understand the precise meaning of labels, especially one that's applied to me. Considering I know that I have depth of emotion that extends beyond myself, I find myself thinking about at what point that could be identified as empathy.
People I've known rarely express certain emotions, I've noticed when they suppress them. It's like a permanent mask that they wear in order to fulfill societal expectations. I know they feel the same things that I do, although they express them in a different way.
One friend used to be an EMT, and one day after a particularly awful week I found him cradling a baby squirrel that had fallen from it's nest. It had died of it's injuries and my friend was inconsolable, he wept openly on my front steps, with the tiny squirrel in his hands. We buried the squirrel together. His empathy manifested in that manner. For anyone who wishes to consider situations beyond the most obvious and overt this was an expression of empathy.
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