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[Kayla55]

Concerning above ,: had a man go out of his way to make false information and cause my concerning late husband to die in prison Even with a good lawyer . a criminal setup ,After destroying my livileyhood . Sensative people are good to find and ,pretty rare .
Have met the worst of men and the best of men.

This is somewhat off-topic but consider Les Trois Mousquetaires.

We all believed in honour, many villains tried to infiltrate. We all serve for one, but all goes to another one.
It's called premeditated or calculated where pick a victim to take the fall, position pawns in war to take the hits, and someone calculates how to get rich from war or a crime where set someone up.

I'm too naive/too innocent/ not cunning enough to do this, perhaps why I don't get ahead in life. Always judge people by choose careers.... So a lawyer should have a devious nature, is white collar job but is person of sound values? Um.

When it comes to montage or Capulet,
Um, I've told my children not to dwell in house of rising sun however Hungarian experience lends to know the devious hand: We all serve for one, but all goes to another one it's just new dynasty and in future the same applies.
Humans were never fair-game, never will be

 

[JayCee]

It is amazing to me that , often males , and women to a degree . That maybe under educated. But have had experience with hard drugs , and may still associate with the same people , that are in that circle of friends . Seem to prefer to feel the effects of drugs instead even taking the time to go to a short term trade school . Just to become more employable . And simply do whats necessary to be employed, even self employed in their chosen trade . Had seen time and again. Children even older grandchildren , allow themselves to move back in with parents . Even back then attended a lower level trade school myself for nursing . With options to go to higher grades of Nursing staff. increased pay etc. 20 years later even with a significant disability, went back to a adult night school. For extra education . Without additional considerations . Finished top of that class .Surprised myself. But there was time ,I did stay at home . Dealing with disabilities , all the while looking for various opportunities . Physical issues, serious depression . So I cannot say that anyone with any disability might need time to sort things out . Depending on level of disability . ( totally different circumstances I feel for older parents that genuinely ask
for support ) ? imho

 

[thejuice]

Thank you because even UK admits finances cause strain on relationship.

Divorces in England and Wales - Office for National Statistics

I had a look at the stats (point 5) and 'unreasonable behaviour' was the top one, 'no fault' / 'mutual agreement' second, adultery third. I couldn't find financial reasons, but it might be because UK is a welfare state.

Even so, financial strain could well pour petrol on the fire of a high conflict relationship. The stress could easily cause "unreasonable behaviour","adultery" or simply losing interest.

I think contrasting attitudes to money would be revealed when times are tough. For example one party might spend recklessly, the other might be a spendthrift. One might be a workaholic, the other might value recreational time. That kind of disagreement with finances and contrast in character would strain things in other areas. If you were comfortable and didn't need to think about finances, you wouldn't even notice.

 

[Kayla55]

Divorces in England and Wales - Office for National Statistics

I had a look at the stats (point 5) and 'unreasonable behaviour' was the top one, 'no fault' / 'mutual agreement' second, adultery third. I couldn't find financial reasons, but it might be because UK is a welfare state.

Even so, financial strain could well pour petrol on the fire of a high conflict relationship. The stress could easily cause "unreasonable behaviour","adultery" or simply losing interest.

I think contrasting attitudes to money would be revealed when times are tough. For example one party might spend recklessly, the other might be a spendthrift. One might be a workaholic, the other might value recreational time. That kind of disagreement with finances and contrast in character would strain things in other areas. If you were comfortable and didn't need to think about finances, you wouldn't even notice.

I didn't find same UK reference, but many sources confirming this, and here is just one

https://booksbymarvinmckenzie.mediu...pressures-on-marriage-and-family-8c1d538e1d20

 

[Kayla55]

Speaking of marriage pressure and dependants who are not self sufficient, may not lead fulfilled life, large chunk is often burden on woman who receive most backlash and extra hours support

 

[JayCee]

Societal influences, being what they are in many parts of the UK , and ingrained peer pressure amongst the male populations there , Could a part of how ,these divorce numbers are being recorded . Abject frustration in lower income households by males, Females requesting understanding ? needing their own support type .And subsequent arguement with the expectations of being able to provide for their families as well as female expectations being similiar . And resultant need to express or relieve frustrations by physical means ? for males possibly? . Not being able to resolve the situations around their own families . Due to rising costs or whatever . Might end up in situations of " Unreasonable behaviour" violence in the household, child abuse..etc. As unintended ways of venting frustration. As reinforced by societal media , or Sports mentality ?
[[But as always, this is just one Point of Veiw .]]