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Can you be more specific?[/QUOTE how would you describe life in Africa I think would be a better way of saying it
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Can you be more specific?[/QUOTE how would you describe life in Africa I think would be a better way of saying it
Hi
I'm sorry for the essay that I've written.
Welcome to one place where you don't need to apologize. I hope you enjoy it here.
Sorry if that all sounds super negative, it's not intended to at all. Everything has just been kind of intense lately. I wanted to add that for the same reasons this has all been terrifying, the diagnosis has also been kind of like a treasure map for already-vaguely-familiar territory. There are things I CAN do exceptionally well that I didn't realize I've been doing all this time, too. I get that it's as much a blessing as a curse and I am not sad about the facts of it. More in awe. But like...burnout, right?Hello,
Brand new here.
I've been chasing this diagnosis my whole life without knowing what it was and just a few weeks ago, discovering "autism" at 30 years old was, I'm pretty sure, my enlightenment moment. Everything makes sense now. My lifelong abject poverty, my current situation of homelessness and unemployment and total abandonment — as well as every memory I pick up and reexamine through this new lens. The speech therapy as a kid? Boggles my mind in hindsight that nobody noticed for so long, but then again, neither did I. I've been trying to process it all for almost a month and kind of want my focus and short-term memory back.
I've come across phrases, especially "autistic burnout" and "alexythemia" and "hyperlexia" that, thanks to ~740 hours of meditation since October and all of this constant processing and repeating shutdowns and rumination and pitiless obsessive drive to find more puzzle pieces, I have a totally new and profound respect for. And there seems to be nothing out there for people in this situation where I live.
I'm curious, how often is it that aspies have this sort of moment of discovery and bring their self-diagnosis to a doctor? Is it more common for somebody else to notice first? Does anyone else have huge problems with memory retention before, during and after shutdowns and meltdowns?
Sorry guys, I've been a little shaky these days. I hope that all makes sense. Any advice or insight would be hugely appreciated, I'll probably be around a fair bit till I figure out which way is up again.
Thank you for existing.
Cheers,
Rag.
I think it is quite common among older Aspies because the diagnosis didn't exist when they were children and people with milder conditions simply weren't diagnosed. Sometimes, people become aware or it because a family member or relative was diagnosed, sometimes because they went to a therapist to seek help with another issue like depression or anxiety, the therapist spotted the traits and they received an ASD diagnosis. Sometimes, people watch a documentary, read a book or a website explaining symptoms and they realise the symptoms apply to them.I'm curious, how often is it that aspies have this sort of moment of discovery and bring their self-diagnosis to a doctor? Is it more common for somebody else to notice first? Does anyone else have huge problems with memory retention before, during and after shutdowns and meltdowns?