So, one thing that many autistics lack is the social mimicry and conformity that NT's do without thinking. They do something because that's the way that everyone else does it. I totally get that it's a hard-wired time-saver for the brain: Someone else has already worked out a solution and I probably won't find a better solution on my own. Trust the crowd. Follow the crowd.
Yet most autistics don't have this ingrained behavior. Instead, they come up with their own solutions to things. I can't tell you how many times I've done something and had someone watching me ask, "What possessed you to do it that way?" I shrug and say, "It seemed like it would work" or offer some other explanation of my thought process. Usually the followup question is, "Why didn't you do it like everyone else does?" The truth is that is that it never occurred to me because I never paid attention to how everyone else did it. I am sure that there have been many times when I came up with the same solution as "the crowd" and therefore haven't been noticed, but I definitely come up with my own odd solutions from time to time and produce lots of raised eyebrows.
An autistic stereotype is "out of the box" thinking - choosing a solution or behavior that no one else thought of (whether better or worse than the previously known solution or behavior). My question is:
Do you think that the lack of social mimicry, and therefore the need to figure a lot of things out on our own, leads to these out-of-the-box solutions?
Yet most autistics don't have this ingrained behavior. Instead, they come up with their own solutions to things. I can't tell you how many times I've done something and had someone watching me ask, "What possessed you to do it that way?" I shrug and say, "It seemed like it would work" or offer some other explanation of my thought process. Usually the followup question is, "Why didn't you do it like everyone else does?" The truth is that is that it never occurred to me because I never paid attention to how everyone else did it. I am sure that there have been many times when I came up with the same solution as "the crowd" and therefore haven't been noticed, but I definitely come up with my own odd solutions from time to time and produce lots of raised eyebrows.
An autistic stereotype is "out of the box" thinking - choosing a solution or behavior that no one else thought of (whether better or worse than the previously known solution or behavior). My question is:
Do you think that the lack of social mimicry, and therefore the need to figure a lot of things out on our own, leads to these out-of-the-box solutions?