Do you watch or download Porn online?

[Mary Anne]

What I was doing was answering the specific question that was being asked here - namely 'Do you watch or download Porn online?'. Why anyone might want to answer that question for other people is beyond me entirely, when that wasn't what was being asked.

I was NOT doing that. My oh my you are sensitive. It is helpful to discuss what porn is, especially since some answered the survey with they have no idea what it is. And porn does not encompass only just vanilla sex. That’s a key point in learning about porn. Another key aspect is the survey was biased...and put in “bi porn” but excluded homo, or lesbian, or any other kind of sexuality porn. So it really was exclusionary in many levels.

 

[countzero1984]

I was NOT doing that. My oh my you are sensitive. It is helpful to discuss what porn is, especially since some answered the survey with they have no idea what it is. And porn does not encompass only just vanilla sex. That’s a key point in learning about porn. Another key aspect is the survey was biased...and put in “bi porn” but excluded homo, or lesbian, or any other kind of sexuality porn. So it really was exclusionary in many levels.

How did my name end up in that quote? I didn't say that.

 

[Observant]

Nothing wrong with a good tug every now and then, though you probably don't want to do it too often, or in a porta-potty in 130 degree weather.

 

[countzero1984]

And it is bloody marvellous

Know what's even BETTER than porn? Webcams!

 

[Mary Anne]

Know what's even BETTER than porn? Webcams!

Spoiler

I didn't have that stuff back when I was younger. Would've saved me about $20k in prostitutes. (JK. Best money I EVER spent in my life!)

But the whole idea is fascinating, where you can watch live sex shows from the comfort of your home. (I was always too embarrassed to ever go to those seedy sex shops with the coin-operated things. Loved gawking at strippers though! WAY better than sports.)

Of course, I wouldn't dare go near a webcam site or my wife would kill me. Kind of ironic considering she won't touch me with a ten-foot pole.

Spoiler

(I don't blame her. I don't blame God. I don't blame Nature. I blame these patriarchal barbarians! Their genetic bigotry is a sick joke. They not only made a hot mess of themselves, and a hot mess of this world -- they made a hot mess of my sex-life! LOL.)

I always wonder how married people end up where the wife will not allow sex. Isn’t that part of what marriage is for??? This denial of sexual marrital relationships is so common, and oh so sad. It makes for a great sex worker industry though.

 

[Mr Allen]

I always wonder how married people end up where the wife will not allow sex. Isn’t that part of what marriage is for??? This denial of sexual marrital relationships is so common, and oh so sad. It makes for a great sex worker industry though.

Us guys are always "in the doghouse" for something or other, hence we get denied our "conjugal rights".

Aw....ignore me I'm not married and probably never will be

 

[countzero1984]

Barbarian love! Not as cute as the muskrats, that's for sure!

 

[Pappy Boyington]

I totally agree that most people tend to be rotten and nasty. Why? Because they are barbarians.

Spoiler

OUT OF AFRICA

First, humans evolved 200 kYA as friendly, peace-loving egalitarians in Africa. What happened was that a genetic switch triggered the FOXP2 gene into overdrive. This controls language. Language is the foundation of intelligence.

If you go back to our ancestor species Hominini (6 MYA) – which was a patriarchal Great Ape that developed culture and tool making – it could only speak/think in 2 word sentences. – Like chimps and gorillas using sign language.

So Hominini split off into Australopithecus and Pan. Pan split off into Chimps – retaining the patriarchy of Hominini – and Bonobos. Now this one's a kicker. Bonobo females somehow figured out they could win over the beta and omega males with sexual favors and overpower the alpha patriarchs. (Crazy but true!)

THE STORY

So: Australopithecus to Homo Habilis to Homo Erectus to … a species/race like the Neanderthals that had remained in Africa. Language eventually developed to the point where a chatty FOXP2 gene complex would be useful. This triggered an explosion of human development: we could now think and speak in stories.

First thing we figured out about 200 kYA: if we all considered each other equals, we wouldn't have to live like hyenas at each others throats snarling, barking and even killing each other over resources. (And that crazy haunting laughter that is not laughter…)

A 200 kYO African egalitarian parable: "Once a man thinks he's better than another, it won't be long before he kills someone."

But during a major crisis, direct democracy would no longer work and the nomadic tribe functioned better with a dictator. Then things would settle down and someone would say: "The emperor wears no clothes." I.e., the leader no longer serves as a benefit to the tribe. The tribe then reverts back to freedom, democacy and equality.

MANUFACTURING CRISES

About 50 kYA, the alphas somehow figured out they could use human sacrifice and cannibalism to terrorize the people into submission. This developed the Stockholm Syndrome instinct and the Messiah instinct: faint hope of rescue from tyranny.

This is why people of patriarchal races tend to be so nasty: junk DNA.

The most nasty sociopathic people tend to weasel their way to the top and dominate the tribal gene pool. There is also a fierce struggle over upper- and even middle-class dynasties. (An ancient political covenant between the alphas and betas.)

When the patriarchs stumbled upon agriculture this produced a 10,000 year war that culminates in thermonuclear Armageddon. – That is, if we let these dumb-brute meatheads and birdbrains drag us all down with them.

I think people with brains can outsmart the brainless and expand social, political and economic space out on a lateral dimension to the patriarchy – that provides: freedom from tyranny, equality of opportunity and democratic meritocracy over the "Iron Law of Oligarchy" that inevitably goes to dynasty, corruption, incompetence and collapse – especially under mass populations.

Basically: realizing constitutional democracy instead of pretending. (Funny how little G-d – or the universe – demands of people. – But is still asking too much.)

THE MACHINE

The Machine stamps people out. ("I got my head done when I was young. It's not my problem. It's not my problem!")

If you're genetically "defective" – if you're Austism Spectrum or People of Color – you get spit out of the bottom of The Machine. Into inner-city ghettos and shanty towns, or even cast out onto the street to die from the elements.

Patriarchal and matriarchal barbarians also like to turn lemons into lemonade by putting rejects and dissidents in psychological contentration camps. They serve as horrifying examples of what will become of you if you don't fall in line. (The 4 major food groups: anxiety, depression, paranoia, OCD. – All "nuture": conditioning from the social environment. I.e., from nasty barbarians who mess with your head.)

JULIUS CAESAR

Caesar conquered the barbarians in Gaul and Britain around 50 BC and brought civilization to these territories via Octavian Augustus (whom he groomed for the role.) Western Rome fell to Cultural Marxism by 325 AD via Deep-State Fake-Christianity. It would collapse by 476 AD plummeting the West into outright Medieval savagery.

A thousand years later, northern European barbarians would conquer and colonize the globe on captured science and technology which exploded after the discovery of calculus. (I.e., Britain, France and Spain: the barbarians of Caesar's day.)

This has produced a 500-year Holocaust on People of Color around the world – still on going. (The Jews were persecuted in a 1600-year Holocaust under "Holy Babylon" culminating in a genocidal industrialized pogrom the last time civilization collapsed into world war.)

CHILDREN AND FOOLS

Barbarians hate Autism Spectrum people – i.e., "fools" – the most of all. Their entire culture is actually founded on the idea the worst thing you could be is a "fool." Because they somehow figured out we are always the ones who can see through their world of lies: "The emperor wears no clothes." (Only something a child could realize – or a fool.)

We are the most dangerous to their tyranny. They have evolved an instinct that drives them to hate our kind. Inflict all manner of psychological damage on us to keep us out of action.

Part of the hatred is also a perceived waste of resources. Even Greek philosophers like Plato and Aristotle said defective children (including Autism Spectrum) should be thrown into a pit to die from the elements. (These barbarians be cray-cray!)

LONG STORY SHORT

It's not you, it's them.

Wow! Lots of junk science in your "spoiler" there. Obviously not written by anyone who even took a first year anthropology course.

To make a long story even shorter, think of humans as struggling to overcome our brutal chimpanzee heritage. Dogs/wolves have had over 10MA to work out the group ethics of being pack hunters. Hominids have only been doing the same thing for the last 2MA at most. Hominids, like all other primates, form groups primarily for the reason of group protection from predators. This doesn't require much ethical behavior from group members and hierarchy is the most important social concern. As we continue to evolve, I imagine this will slowly change and hopefully, we can be as good as dogs (in terms of social ethics) someday.

 

[Misery]

LOL. So says the "a-sexu-owl." Like what on Earth do you know about adult sexual relationships? My guess: absolutely nothing.

You would also appear to be completely ignorant of biology, anthropology, psychology, microbiology, sociology, human origins, human history and prehistory.

I strung together about 50 concise statements spanning the entirety of humanity going back 6-million freaking years. All across the board.

So Ok, Professor Science. Start putting some red ink up on my 50 assertions of "pseudoscience." Start tearing them up! Should be easy-peasy!

Just look at what I got off of one statement of pure unadulterated ignorance!

You don't have the right to be bigoted about science when you don't know a thing about science.

You don't have the right to be bigoted about what goes on in adult sexual relationships when you've probably never been in one.

Either put up or shut up.

And if you're too ignorant to put up, bring in someone who actually knows what they're talking about. I'll take on anyone you throw at me. Because I've spent decades studying these subjects. And I'm not the type who's easily bullied or baffled by BS. I tear through that nonsense like a pit-bull on a kitty-cat. It makes me feel all warm and tingly inside.

You say all of that, yet you responded to a topic that has a rather obvious premise, with a REALLY LONG (and somewhat questionable, even to me) history lesson that wasnt even relevant. THAT is the problem here. I read through some of it myself, and... yeah, it had nothing to do with any of this. We didnt come here to discuss the history of anything. Which, to me, seems really obvious just from the OP. If you want to discuss that, that's totally fine, but create a seperate topic. This level of derailment just irritates people. Simply waving a blob of text at people and going "BUT IT'S SCIENCE" isnt exactly something that tends to get a positive response on most forums.

You can avoid getting people agitated like that by, well, NOT doing that. Not to mention that MOST users of forums like this simply wont read a post that long. I speak from experience here.

Also, dont be insulting (calling anyone ignorant, which is completely unwarranted... particularly on a forum, where you dont actually KNOW the individual you're talking to. And note that "uninterested" or "doesnt freaking care" is not the same as "ignorant", at least not in the sort of context you're clearly using it in). There's no need for that on this forum. Or rudeness of any sort, really. Already get enough of that on a certain other forum that many of us are familiar with... but that's a whole other topic.

 

[countzero1984]

Someone called my work "pseudoscience" which was very rude. And I unloaded on them with both barrels. The moral of the story: don't attempt to shame someone unless you got what it takes. Or it might blow right up in your face. Then you burn with twice the shame.

You people are territorial over posts you can just ignore. That's good. This is your forum. It is what you make of it. Enjoy.

 

[Mary Anne]

My history lesson was relevant. I.e., the reason the world is as crazy as it is, is because it was conquered by barbarians. Historical fact. But not important.

If someone posts a long (however well-researched and well-written) post, it is something everyone has the free-will to either read or ignore.

I'm looking to connect to with people who are interested in the same things I'm interested in. Like you, I'm not interested in a relationship for relationship sake. I already have a wife who ignores everything I say. (Who's really a very sweet country girl I love deeply. And I am very blessed to have her.) So not interesting in more empty talk about nothing.

Someone called my work "pseudoscience" which was very rude. And I unloaded on them with both barrels. The moral of the story: don't attempt to shame someone unless you got what it takes. Or it might blow right up in your face. Then you burn with twice the shame.

You people are territorial over posts you can just ignore. That's good. This is your forum. It is what you make of it. Enjoy.

I don’t understand what “conquering the world by barbarians” has to do with watching porn. Can you enlighten me? Sorry, still on my first coffee of the morning, so my brain is still half asleep. I also don’t know what “relationships” have to do with watching porn, because they are often (most likely) NOT connected to each other.

 

[Misery]

My history lesson was relevant. I.e., the reason the world is as crazy as it is, is because it was conquered by barbarians. Historical fact. But not important.

If someone posts a long (however well-researched and well-written) post, it is something everyone has the free-will to either read or ignore.

I'm looking to connect to with people who are interested in the same things I'm interested in. Like you, I'm not interested in a relationship for relationship sake. I already have a wife who ignores everything I say. (Who's really a very sweet country girl I love deeply. And I am very blessed to have her.) So not interesting in more empty talk about nothing.

Someone called my work "pseudoscience" which was very rude. And I unloaded on them with both barrels. The moral of the story: don't attempt to shame someone unless you got what it takes. Or it might blow right up in your face. Then you burn with twice the shame.

You people are territorial over posts you can just ignore. That's good. This is your forum. It is what you make of it. Enjoy.

Two things:

First, if you want to connect with others for those reasons, post about this in the "obsessions and interests" section. Dont derail already-existing topics... it just confuses everyone and makes them all irritable. But feel free to create topics about whatever. Chances are you'll find others that are ready to discuss it. Though, I do suggest keeping the posts at least somewhat shorter.

Second though... dont "unload with both barrels", as you put it. There's no call for that. All you're doing is adding fuel to a destructive fire that would have just burned out on it's own. By doing that, you make it bigger, and it wont accomplish a bloody thing, except catching on nearby objects and starting even more, bigger fires. Something I learned from dealing with a bazillion bullies IRL: There's never a good reason to sink to their level. They're being insulting jerks? Well, tough. They're not going to get any stupid arguements or spectacles out of me, that's exactly what they want, so... they aint getting it. And I'm not going to act the way they do. That sort of thinking, it applies to stuff like this. A fight cannot take place with only one participant.

But it's not just that though. Keep in mind just where you are. On this forum, ALOT of us have social issues. And not small issues, either... usually big ones that cause alot of frustration to everyone involved. ALOT of us... myself included... can often get into situations where someone ends up insulted, but not only was it NOT on purpose, but we dont even necessarily understand what went wrong. That's pretty frequent when dealing with those that have any form of autism. Obviously it's not a universal trait, but... it is pretty common. That's the OTHER reason not to try to "teach someone a lesson", so to speak, based on something said to you. You'll have to accept that some interactions in this place are going to be... awkward at best, irritating or even infuriating at worst, yet it's rarely ever intentional. Best keep your temper in check while dealing with this place.

I say all of this as someone who has a *very* short fuse, so... I can understand where anger and frustration might come from here. But as a rule, it isnt truly warranted.

Welcome to the forums, by the way.

 

[Bertie Wooster]

I don’t understand what “conquering the world by barbarians” has to do with watching porn. Can you enlighten me? Sorry, still on my first coffee of the morning, so my brain is still half asleep. I also don’t know what “relationships” have to do with watching porn, because they are often (most likely) NOT connected to each other.

Just looked for some conquering barbarian porn, nothing came up so im guessing this guys in the wrong thread maybe

 

[Mary Anne]

Just looked for some conquering barbarian porn, nothing came up so im guessing this guys in the wrong thread maybe

Funny! Well, ahem...some fetishists do “get off” on the costumes of conquering barbarians, Vikings, knights, gladiators, and the like. Maybe that is what they are referring to?

 

[Bertie Wooster]

Funny! Well, ahem...some fetishists do “get off” on the costumes of conquering barbarians, Vikings, knights, gladiators, and the like. Maybe that is what they are referring to?

Hahaha, quite right Mary Anne im sure if I searched with more determination I could find conquering barbarians having sex with one another. The image in my head is just too funny to be spoilt though

 

[Mary Anne]

Hahaha, quite right Mary Anne im sure if I searched with more determination I could find conquering barbarians having sex with one another. The image in my head is just too funny to be spoilt though

Not too hard to find that. Gay (homo) porn is full of uniforms and muscle bound men! Gladiators and barbarians rule!

 

[Bertie Wooster]

Not too hard to find that. Gay (homo) porn is full of uniforms and muscle bound men! Gladiators and barbarians rule!

Not really my thing to be honest, I like the way you put homo in brackets just to make sure I wouldnt confuse it with overly happy people porn

 

[Bolletje]

Not really my thing to be honest, I like the way you put homo in brackets just to make sure I wouldnt confuse it with overly happy people porn

Overly happy people porn. Now that would be a terrifying thing to behold.

 

[countzero1984]

Two things:

First, if you want to connect with others for those reasons, post about this in the "obsessions and interests" section. Dont derail already-existing topics... it just confuses everyone and makes them all irritable. But feel free to create topics about whatever. Chances are you'll find others that are ready to discuss it. Though, I do suggest keeping the posts at least somewhat shorter.

Second though... dont "unload with both barrels", as you put it. There's no call for that. All you're doing is adding fuel to a destructive fire that would have just burned out on it's own. By doing that, you make it bigger, and it wont accomplish a bloody thing, except catching on nearby objects and starting even more, bigger fires. Something I learned from dealing with a bazillion bullies IRL: There's never a good reason to sink to their level. They're being insulting jerks? Well, tough. They're not going to get any stupid arguements or spectacles out of me, that's exactly what they want, so... they aint getting it. And I'm not going to act the way they do. That sort of thinking, it applies to stuff like this. A fight cannot take place with only one participant.

But it's not just that though. Keep in mind just where you are. On this forum, ALOT of us have social issues. And not small issues, either... usually big ones that cause alot of frustration to everyone involved. ALOT of us... myself included... can often get into situations where someone ends up insulted, but not only was it NOT on purpose, but we dont even necessarily understand what went wrong. That's pretty frequent when dealing with those that have any form of autism. Obviously it's not a universal trait, but... it is pretty common. That's the OTHER reason not to try to "teach someone a lesson", so to speak, based on something said to you. You'll have to accept that some interactions in this place are going to be... awkward at best, irritating or even infuriating at worst, yet it's rarely ever intentional. Best keep your temper in check while dealing with this place.

I say all of this as someone who has a *very* short fuse, so... I can understand where anger and frustration might come from here. But as a rule, it isnt truly warranted.

Welcome to the forums, by the way.

Thanks for the advice.

 

[countzero1984]

Us guys are always "in the doghouse" for something or other, hence we hey denied our "conjugal rights".

Aw....ignore me I'm not married and probably never will be

I'm a total freak who never imagined he'd get married or even get within 10-feet of a woman! But somehow I managed.